2007-11-07 04:29:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
well kinda both. you can have a lavish and inexpensive wedding. just manage your costs and money. you can make it look like you spent a lot more money on it than you really did.
2007-11-07 04:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have it somewhere in the middle. But I have seen both pulled off really well and think that it is up to the couple. There are people who can afford to have huge lavish weddings and I think that it their choice. I would prefer to use the money for a down payment on a house but those are the options that I have.
2007-11-07 13:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by nyjae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very simple and inexpensive. I feel like the more laid back they are the more I enjoy myself. Many lavish weddings give me the feeling of uptight nonsense and I don't enjoy myself. I like the creative kind that feel like a party more so than a formal ballroom type setting. Which is why I will be getting married on a beach and having the reception outside and have it catered with BBQ food!
2007-11-07 13:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to be a guest at lavish weddings, but want my own to be simple and inexpensive.
2007-11-07 13:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simple is good.
1. Less stress
2. More time to focus on the marriage
3. More time with guests/family. Some couples have so many wedding guests that they barely have time to say "hello" to them, much less have a conversation. Guests often make sacrifices (money and time) to go to a wedding. They may feel slighted if the couple can spend no time with them.
4. Less debt, and less stress on the marriage relationship
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2007-11-07 12:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think lavish weddings are a waste of money. I think the goal of a wedding is for the two people to become one through marriage, not to impress people.
2007-11-07 12:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Earl 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would love to be a guest at a lavish wedding - how fun!
For my own wedding, it was somewhere right in the middle of the two - for us, it was all about classic elegance.
2007-11-07 13:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple and inexpensive. I like a wedding where there is a personal feel to it. I'd rather walk away saying, "I love the way they incorporated their grandparents' vows" than "That prime rib sure was tasty."
2007-11-07 12:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by mellowyellow5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plus sides to both really and it's up to the couple to decide what suits them best. I had a small wedding but have attended some awesome big weddings.
2007-11-07 12:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We had a small one 15 years ago and we're just fine. Marriage is what matters not what kind of wedding you had. Instead of waisting money on a huge wedding (unless you're rich), use the money for a down payment on a house and your honeymoon.
2007-11-07 12:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by Muschi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋