Who is wrong here, Mother or Brother? Am I, still being Ripped Off??

Question

My Mother and Father were divorced, my Mother was remarried with children when my Father died in Nov.1968. My Father left my Mother a letter earlier that year, which is a will.. At the time of his death, he was buyin some land. In this letter, he states he wants my Mother to take the money that would be coming in from S.S. to pay the land off, and make sure that his daughter got it. My Mother paid the land off, and somehow got the Deed put in her name.Then in 1999 she gave it to my half Brother. This land was in my Fathers Succession. When I had found that out, I had no choice, but to get an attorney. Last year I dropped the law suit, to save face with my family, thinking that they would do the right thing, and have the Deed put in my name...Not, my half Brother is still on the Deed....My question is...Why do I have to settle with half of what, was to be mine. Brother had the nerve to tell me he was (giving) me half, how is that ,when its not his to give? The nerve of some people..

Answer 1

you are wrong,

YOUR MOTHER PAID THAT LAND OFF
not you or your father,

your being greedy

and he is giving you Half, because its his now

9 years later you are still trying to rip them off, wanting more and more

your father died in 1968 it is 2008 almost

You are over 40 years old, and should know better

Leave your family alone you greedy woman,
stop this selfish ME me me behavior,

and Sucession, get real it wasn't paid for your mother had to pay it, wich means it was legally hers,
you never paid for any of it, your father may have paid for some of it but NOT much and bottom line its NOT automatically yours, your being selfish

and thats the truth,

Your brother has more than likely earned that peice of land,
in more ways than one, alot of times the person who gets the house needs it most, or has to take care of their mother,

I can certainly tell this person can not possible be you

as you are fighting over a few dollars,
what 40,000 dollars worth of property,

Jeeze, I hate people who are this way

Meg

Answer 2

Whatever you do take a look at to not begin any arguments. There's little need in combating over a television channel, mainly if a bit of factor like that escalates right into a terrible problem. Try speaking in your mother approximately your situation. Tell her you're keen on her and desire to paintings by way of those disorders among you 2 and that you simply desire to take a look at to emerge as nearer along with her and feature a well dating. Talk to a instructor, a counselor, a relative -- any individual you suppose possibly in a position to aid you. if you're considering suicide you have to attempt to solve the despair and hopelessness you're feeling. Call youngster offerings should you must, however take some time to speak in your mother first. Also, attempt to don't forget that your lifestyles is yours, and it doesn't matter what occurs you continuously how the energy to difference matters, and irrespective of how others deal with you you must by no means quit in your goals and plans in your lifestyles.

Answer 3

What your brother is doing is very wrong. It is not his to be giving half away to begin with. I know your family might give you a hard time but you should not let yourself be taken advantage of. If that was your fathers wish then you should hire an attorney and do whatever you have to do to make sure that his wish is for filled. Good Luck

Answer 4

Greed is ugly. They have let it pervert their sense of judgment. Just don't let it do the same to you. Learn to live with what you have. If you were really meant to have the land then just believe that it will some how find its way into your hands.

Answer 5

they are greedy, plain and simple, and did not respect your father's wishes.

sometimes we have to accept the crap life tosses in our faces, and move forward.

meanwhile, what comes around, goes around, and surely it will go around for your mother and brother sooner or later.

take care of YOU.... hugs

Answer 6

Unless you can prove what your dad wanted done-it is difficult to prove otherwise.