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We get together mostly at night and weekends, i work mon-fri 9-5 and hes on the weekends, were both so drained so we stick to 1 position only... is this okay?

2007-11-07 03:44:52 · 17 answers · asked by oNe LuV 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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wait until you are married, it's the right way, and so much better. >L

2007-11-07 03:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 9

You need to start eating a diet with more protein and some energy foods. Try drinking some protein shakes. Also do some light exercises around 6:30 p.m. or so. I find that exercising gives me a lot more energy. Then wear a really sexy lingerie, and try some new positions that you haven't tried before. Try doggie style where you are on all fours, with your hands and legs, or just try the two legs to start with. Also if you're always on the bottom, try doing it on the top of him, instead. Don't always do the same position because after a while he'll be bored and tired of the whole routine. You have to keep your man satisfied.

2007-11-07 03:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_susy59 3 · 0 0

Quite a few suggestions on this one, hope some of them will help,nothing wrong with one position what ever works for you really .
BEING TIRED IS YOUR ONLY PROBLEM, AND IF YOU GET MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN YOU WILL REALLY KNOW WHAT BEING TIRED MEANS.
The way I see it, it is no use thinking about sex when you get home,sex starts in the brain so a little preparation is always important,start in the morning with an extra loving hug before you go to work, deep kiss not just a peek, rub your hands up his back, in a way that lets him know what you are thinking, sneak a little loving sexy note in his pocket so he can found it later, send him a loving thought when ever you can in your busy schedule, book a night in a hotel if you can afford it, and arrive dressed totally different than what you usually do, eh you can even wear a wig !!!!!!!!!!!!
Last but not least if you like this idea let him read it too for it applies to both of you,good luck.

2007-11-07 04:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Loretta M 3 · 0 0

I understand. I'm trying to find a way to spice up mine too. These are some ideas I have.
Leave messages in his email, so when he checks it, he'll feel special and aroused.

Leave a note in his car or in a drawer he is sure to look in during the day to make him feel special.

I would get a sexy new outfit for him and go to a nice restaraunt one night and have a romantic dinner

Make "Love Coupons" and reward him with a small book of them and he can use whenever he wants.

Ofcourse, different positions is a great way to switch it up.

Blindfolds and love cuff links. Me and bf have already done that and it's fun!

If you can, both of you take a night or day off and just spend it with each other. Everyone deserves a break.

:) I hope that helps. My boyfriend and I are going to spice it up on 11/17 and I have rose petals and massage oils and plan on taking a nice hot bath with him and everything.

GOOD LUCK SWEETIE.

2007-11-07 03:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No it's not okay, you already said you want to spice things up. Use your imagination. Get kinky. Think about simple things to start with, blindfolds and can't use hands. Tie him down tease him till he begs then tease him some more. Get out the whipped cream, make yourself a bikini and let him lick it clean. There's lots of stuff you can do to spice up a boring love life, and the more physical you get with it, the more in shape you'll be, the better you will sleep, the less drained you will feel at the end of the day. Another fun thing to try is his night/her night. This takes a lot of trust, but the rule is, you can't say no to your partner. Whatever they want to do, you do. Whatever they want done, you do it. Have fun!

2007-11-07 03:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ben Dover 4 · 0 0

as long as both of u enjoy it, forget what all the books tell u abt no of times per week and kinds of positions. theres no formula that works for everyone.

u can try to synchronize when u can get a weekend/some days off and enjoy some more time together

2007-11-07 03:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by kiki68 4 · 0 0

Hummm...you better fix this problem because it could end with somebody cheating. Tired is an excuse, because everyone needs sex but not boring sex. Spice things a lil bit more if you guys love each other...Good Luck

2007-11-07 04:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Yulien 2 · 0 0

One position is fine, but it may be better to change things around. Learn new positions, maybe some toys (If both approve) or try and figure out each others sexual fantasy is and act from there.

2007-11-07 03:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

mix it up a little... if you have most of your energy in the beginning, try the new positions inthe beginning.

like start on top and end is missionary, or vica versa, etc.

or try a bunch of positions for little amounts of time rather than one position for a long time.

try it in the shower. relax and have sex in the bath tub.

or on the couch

2007-11-07 03:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 2 0

It's ok...it's still getting the job done, but it could get monotonous...ya know?? Why don't you try it in a different room of the house?? Or how about you hop in the shower with him the next time he's in there!! Good luck!!

2007-11-07 03:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 2 0

not really, if your tired you need to star eating food with energy and take control of the bedroom by doing something different. eventually somebodys going to get bored.

2007-11-07 03:50:15 · answer #11 · answered by Tax Man 2 · 0 0

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