Male and Female POV please....
How would you feel if someone you were dating said that they wanted to watch a video of you having intercourse with another man...a man before your current relationship?
Would you be offended? Hurt? Upset? Turned on?
He then said how he would never ever want to share me but I just could not believe that he would even want to see that from my past, present, or future...most people find the thought of their partner with another stomach turning!!!
FYI I dont have any videos he just asked me if I had any past videos....that alone was a bit shocking...
2007-11-07 02:18:39 · 13 answers · asked by jc207 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems he might have a bit of a voyeuristic type of fetish and the thought probably does turn him on, I would probably be a little put off by that at first but if you're not comfortable exploring this fetish with him then tell him so. Maybe he just wants to watch you in action, I'm not sure how long you've been together but maybe try touching yourself in front of him, if that really is his thing, that will definitely get him off.
2007-11-07 02:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-28 06:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never dealt with anything close to this, but...
It obviously isn't an appealing or flattering thought to you, but he probably meant it in a positive way. It would be, I think, like personalized porn -- watching two people doing It, and hey!, one of them is you! He would be watching you, getting satisfied, and that is something he probably enjoys first-hand as well. Getting to watch his sweetie being frisky is a powerful thought. (And being recorded pre-him in the past, there's nothing for him to be jealous about.)
The other guy? Eh; porn for straight guys is all about the women; we know the men are there, but we know they are there only to provide some necessary equipment, and give them very little thought.
2007-11-07 02:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be everything BUT turned on.
He doesn't want to share you but he wants to see any past things? WHAT? Is he insecure? How the hell would he feel if the guy was 10x bigger and your smile was oh so different. That guy would freak himself out.
Be a mature adult. The past is the past. Something about that doesn't feel right. My two cents is even if you had a video f* him - I wouldn't dare share it. That's your thing not his. Good luck - stay with what is truly right. Always & forever be honest to yourself!
2007-11-07 02:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be offended and hurt and a little wary bcoz if he asked that now, he might also ask to take a video of you two together and for me sex is private. And i'd rather not take the chance of having a video that might be stolen, lost or seen by strangers.
2007-11-07 02:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ehlana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be offended to hear that from someone I am dating because there are other things more important. I would even wonder how that question surfaced, how long was he thinking about it before he asked and if he didn't want to share you then that question should've never came up in conversation.
2007-11-07 02:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a freak. It is one thing to watch porn of people you don't know but want to watch some one you are dating with another man that is weird. I would run.
2007-11-07 02:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him You don't have any videos, but maybe he would like to watch You do it in person. Afterward, tell how much better the other guy was in the sack. Then dump him.
2007-11-07 02:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by sAm cbt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds bad but I know a guy that really likes to watch his wife with other guys! It shocked me when they ask me to be with her,no I didn't do it.I think you should probably be looking for a new guy to date because if that turns him on he will keep it up!
2007-11-07 02:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually this is quite common wish amoung men to see their wife with another man.
It is called "cuckolding". I have done that with my hubby. It turns him on like nothing else.
LD
2007-11-07 02:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋