I asked a guy out a couple weeks ago. before i asked this guy out he would flirt with me and talk to me. but after i asked him out ( he said no) he stopped talking to me and didn't flirt with me. is there a possibility that he likes me but don't want to date right now. becouse he flirted with me pretty much every time i seen him (i see him twice a week). and now he don't flirt with me. he didn't even tell me why he said no but i havn't asked him though. i need advise. sorry this is so long.
Also is it bad that i still like this guy?
give me any advise you have.
thanks
2007-11-07 02:08:42 · 7 answers · asked by Brute 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has never had a girl friend and by the way my friend that goes to school with him, he isn't a flirt at school but use to flirt with me. also i don't go to school with this guy.
2007-11-07 02:19:59 · update #1
He was chasing you, and being caught up in the excitement of the "hunt". His excitement is now over since you made the "big" move. If you're still interested in him, you now need to totally ignore him to once again arouse his curiosity for you. Time will tell what his intentions towards you are. Also, you said you still like him. Well, think for a minute - how do you know you like him if you don't even know him. You only "see" him. You've never dated to be able to get to know him. I think you like the idea of liking him, not actually liking him. He might be a total jerk that loves to flirt and play the women. He stopped talking to you so why on earth would you even think that you like him??
2007-11-07 02:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal that you still like this guy. BUT, I would be careful.......if he just said "no" without explaining himself or trying to make sure he wasn't hurting or offending you, then I hate to say it, but I'm thinking he's not interested. Not so sure what the flirting is all about still, but I'd say to stay pretty neutral and if he does decide he's into you, let HIM make the move! Good luck!
2007-11-07 10:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Elsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He liked flirting with you but didn't realize you had feelings for him. He's doing the right thing by not continuing to flirt with you . He doesn't want to continue to lead you on and hurt your feelings. He's probably just a flirt and doesn't really have substancial feelings for you.
2007-11-07 10:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Stefani 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like maybe he has a girlfriend! He enjoyed the flirting but when you ask him out he got scared.You really need to find out if he has a girlfriend or a boyfriend before you ask him again.Good luck
2007-11-07 10:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mabye he just wants to be friends.Just be friends for a while.
2007-11-07 10:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by b-buddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe give him a bj that will help
2007-11-07 10:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might have another one, if you still want him, then please wait and see.
2007-11-07 10:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋