So here's the big question that will make you wonder!
Is one of your kids a angel? Do you love him/her more?
Or do you love them both even though one can be a bit cheeky sometimes?
2007-11-06 23:07:31 · 17 answers · asked by *BlueWolf* 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
NO! some children take more work then others, but loving one more? NEVER
2007-11-10 19:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I love them both equally.
When the twins were younger the youngest had colic really bad and to be honest got more attention, because he was sick all the time. If you have ever seen a child with colic you would understand. I used to feel for his brother, because I would spend hours rocking him to sleep and his brother barely got a 10 minute cuddle.
When my boys turned 1 year old, my eldest was diagnosed with glue ear, which 6 month later caused him to go completely deaf in his left ear. Then he developed Sleep Apnea about 3 months ago. It has gotten so bad he stops breathing for up to 1 minute at night, which doesn't allow me much sleep. He had to attend so many appointments to see specialist which does take up a lot of my time. Now his younger brother has to take a back seat.
It makes me feel so bad that I have to pay more attention to one boy more than the other, and I hope that it doesn't make me a bad parent. I do however love them both so much that it is impossible to love one more than his brother.
2007-11-06 23:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by *Charli* Mamma Di Gemini's 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a 3yr old daughter and a 10mth old son and obviously my son needs more attention at the moment as he is getting into everything but it doesnt mean i love my daughter any less.
My kids have such different personalities and i love them both so much, i understand that sometimes kids can do things to make you mad or hurt you in life but love is unconditional and should always be the same for your children no matter how many u have or how old they are :)
2007-11-07 00:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by janexo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have three kids n they all have different personalities some can be more of a handful that the other but theres no way u can choose coz they are all urs they came from u n how cruel to the other kids, they can tell these things let me tell you that they arent as silly as parents think no matter what their ages are. And if you do choose one n not the other u shouldnt be a mum or have more than one child.
2007-11-06 23:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by franklin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 kids and love them Both the Same !!! They of course have different personalities but they are Both the Light of my life. I can't imagine having to choose one over the other.
2007-11-07 02:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a father of 2 and i can say i love both my children the same i can say how ever the one year gets more atttention than the 7 year old i guess because she cant do alot for herself i cant see how some one can have kids and single out a favorite.
2007-11-06 23:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother of 2 and I can fairly say I love both of my children equally. (ages 5 and 17 months) It is about balance for me. Both have different qualities that make them unique. One loves to draw, the other is sporty. Balancing affection shouldn't be hard. My mom had 4 children and she tried being there for all of us but it drained her at times, so I learned to rely on my husband and help me with decisions with one of our children when I spend time with the other. You need one on one with each child so they feel like they have mom or dad to themselves without a sibling yelling over their shoulder for attention.
2007-11-06 23:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Military Mama due 03/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't love any of my children "more" than the others, but there are definite circumstantial preferences. There are certain children that I like to do certain things with more than the other. I try to compensate by making sure that I spend time with all of them equally. But as for love, I love all of them with my whole heart and couldn't possibly love them any more or less.
2007-11-07 00:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Denise S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love both my children the same. I am enjoying my younger one more because she is still in the cute toddler stage and my older one is in first grade with a sixth grade attitude. But, that just means that I have to try harder to connect with the older one. And I know that my younger one will get older and the cuteness will wear off of her, too. Your relationship with your children changes and evolves as they pass from stage to stage.
2007-11-07 00:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I love my children the same but we do go in waves as far as who I'm closer to at any time. They tend to go in waves with us. One week it'll be my 7 yr old stuck to my side while our 5 yr old is stuck to daddy and the next week it will be the other way around. But as far as loving one more then the other it's impossible. Hope this helps
2007-11-07 14:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Melba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋