lately i've been having dreams that i have sex with people other than my fiancee. and people i don't know.. and it feels so good in my dream too it's ridiculous.
i also had a dream that i had a 3 year old kid that i didn't tell anyone about and i loved her to death
i really don't know.. it's hard to explain.. can someone please help me out.
((yes i'm a girl too))
2007-11-06 19:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jolene U 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Since you said "fiance", I'm guessing that there's going to be a wedding soon. Sometimes when we are in a committed relationship we start to get "cold feet". Being with just one person for the rest of your life is a big deal. You're just a normal person, who is experiencing what it's like to be with someone else other than him. The fact that you don't know the other people is not significant. It's all about the fantasy. Enjoy them, they are for your pleasure only, and not meant to harm your fiance'. Also, if there is a secret that you are hiding from him, talk to him about it now, before you get married. Otherwise, whatever it is that you're keeping from him could come back and destroy your relationship. Good luck.
2007-11-07 04:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lisanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've experienced many a wonderful sexual thing and many not so wonderful - that's how we find out what we like and what we never want to do again. Now, I'd rather be doing something else with my time. I find it boring, time consuming, messy and dull. I don't believe it is THE ideal that makes a relationship and I'd like to think my relationship is more profound and meaningful than how much sex per week is considered healthy by so-called over-opinionated experts who don't know me and magazine editors and writers that try to push it down our throats and advertisers and promoters who lack the sufficient proclivity toward true creativity to appeal to our intelligence and resort to selling with sex. . . really? Is that the best you've got? Rhetorical... Sex is just another one of those life experiences, that is, for those who don't use it as power play and the degradation of your fellow human being or some psychopathic, sociopathic derangement, and, like a lot of life experiences, it can be a little - been there, done that and so we move on to fine other ways with which to fulfil ourselves. The satisfaction of climbing a small mountain and standing on top afterwards, scanning my 360 degree view with nothing more than the peace of nature and the tranquillity of leaving the rat-race and technology behind for a few hours, gives me an amazing rush and profound satisfaction. It is exhilarating. But what does all this mean? Well, it means, very simply, that I've done 'stuff' and had a good time doing it, and now, I want more from life than a few minutes romp in the hay. But what is good for me isn't necessarily right for you. So do what works for you (lawfully) and don't worry what other people think.
2016-05-28 05:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex dreams are usually about a commitment you are making in life. And that you are engaged is definitely a big commitment. And don't worry about the dream being sex with other men, you are just worrying a bit about how big the step you are taking is, that you might fail him somehow. It felt good because you are happy to be engaged.
As for the 3 year old kid, Do you have something in your past you love but haven't told your fiance about yet, something he might not like? (that may be way off if those two dreams weren't dreamed in a row.)
2007-11-06 20:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Compute This 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you recently been involved intimately with strangers? If so, then the interaction was very pleasurable to you. You were reviewing the situation in your dream.
The dream of the three year old indicates that you have a secret love which you think is immature of you to have, yet you can't resist it.
Hope this helped. Good luck
2007-11-07 02:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex dreams are normal, but usually women dream of men they know, not necessarily one they're in love with. So I don't know what your question is there.
As for your 3 year old daughter. Do you want children? That's one way to look at it. Does this child remind you of yourself? If so you may be having internal conflicts with that something that went wrong in your childhood.
I'm probably not much help, but you're not very specific on what question you want answered.
2007-11-06 19:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dubbs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. The meaning of your first dream is quite easy. It signifies that you keep secret some of your biggest dreams in life. That's why it feels pleasurable because you want to achieve your secret dream but you do not want other to know it.
2. Your second dream is connected to your first dream. You love something. However, you do not want others to know it because you lack the confidence to tell it to other people.
2007-11-06 22:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll the only answer i can say is i hopeful youre dreams dont comes true ,but if does then youre fiancee might get mad and upset that you were dreaming and thinking about other men out there and wanna sleep with them instead beingin with youre fiancee . even wishes had a kid with someone else
2007-11-07 17:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by statecalifornia2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.
2007-11-06 21:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by I M Stoned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your want someone else then your man. It feels good cause your doing what you want with someone else. The lil girl is you since you can't leave him. If you love her move on and finf a new spouse.
2007-11-06 20:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Salvador 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could recal and say u need to spice it up r u getting enof sex do u want a kid r u married take all these in account and sit down and talk it out wit ur man and see where ur at i know i did it with my girl and she's cool about the talking
2007-11-06 19:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋