He has a gf. We worked together. He would flirt w/ me.It could be considered harmless, but there were times he made suggestions or took it a bit further than just a lil flirting. I left the job, I see him and we still kept in touch. He told me that a guy from work (who liked me) told him that he should give me a shot when my friend told him that we still keep in touch and go out to lunch alot. Laughing, I said just because he wants to get with me doesn't mean you do and he looked at me with raised eyebrows, said no comment. Also, I told one of my old clients that after I left my job, I realized how important he was to me and I loved him.She told him the next time she saw him "you know she's in love with you, right?" He and I have talked about what she said playfully and nothing is weird like it can be with unrequited love. Its like he accepts it, isn't actin on it. He always shares things about his relationship. Even about their lack of chemistry in bed. Am I reading too much into it?
2007-11-06 16:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His flirting may be harmless, but if he is still seeing his girlfriend , and discussing it with you, he may just want a friend to talk to or he may be wanting you to sympathize so he can have his cake and eat it to, unless he has the guts to tell her it is over, i would not trust his intentions at this point. it sounds like he is not being honest with both of you. Let him make a decision about his current relationship before you put yourself in an uncomfortable situation with expectations that are not justified at this point. if it is meant to be you will soon see.
2007-11-06 17:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie Z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could have ED...or a smaller part of the anatomy and he is not telling you that. That would explain why he would tell you about a "lack of chemistry in bed" with his gf, but not break up with her and go with you. Or else he might be gay/bisexual and trying to be on the "down low" (pretending to be straight). In any case, he can't make up his mind what he wants out of life and at this point he is taken, so it is probably best to move on. Life is too short (oh, is that a pun?)...
2007-11-06 17:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he likes you alot and being that you have known each other so long it may not be bad to pursue a relationship. Always keep in mind that he may just be really sweet ( unlikely) and you don't want to put your feelings on the line. Whatever you do take it slow.
2016-05-28 05:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by ute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think so. If a girl told me that & i was still talking to her but avoiding the issue, it would be cause i didnt feel the same way.
go on to someone else , he may still have the girlfriend & who know, he may be playing someone else too.
2007-11-06 17:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Doors 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why won't you just sit down and have a mature conversation about this. And if u guys think it would work, try arranging a date to start with. Good luck!
2007-11-06 16:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by oceanblue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the reason i don't trust the opposite sex as my/his confidante. It is not right to talk about his negative feelings to his girlfriend. Tell him to settle that with her not you. Please don't mess up their relationship. Wait till they eloped but don't pay attention too much on him. He just don't want to be alone. He's making you as his spare tire just in case he blew up the one in use...
2007-11-06 17:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by margarita lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is a show off ,a real man never talk about personal things to other people and really man never make women friend without want more then talk
2007-11-06 17:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by alfie thai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he is in a relationship with another girl,he is off limits to you.
So, why bother to think about it.
Get your own life.
2007-11-06 17:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's toying with the idea of cheating on her with you. But ask yourself this: If he cheats with you, won't he cheat on you later? Both of you are playing with fire; be careful you don't get burned!
2007-11-06 17:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Gee Wye 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U both maybe falling for each other without even knowing it!
2007-11-06 17:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋