Over this past weekend I got a lil too intoxicated since it was my friend's bday. While I was at the club celebrating, I spotted a friend of this guy I've liked-but we're mostly just friends-anyway his friend is actually a roommate of the guy I like's cousin. Well me & his friend were flirting & since I didn't want to drive home drunk, I went w/him back to his place. Well 1 thing lead to another & we hooked up. Then I felt bad so I called my guy friend & told him to come over. When he got there, I'm sure he saw me come out of his friend's room, but who knows, and then me & him hooked up. So yah I pretty much suckered him into coming over so I could hook up w/ him. I'm not sure if he knows I hooked up w/his friend but I'm sure the word got around. Anyway, my guy friend still seems to be my friend after what happened, even though I thought he liked me at one point. But I never told him what happened, but like I said he probably knows from someone else, if so, why is he still my friend?
2007-11-06 16:32:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is still your friend for the same reasons he became your friend in the first place. You may have been pushing your friendship a little dab by nailing both of them the same night. But as long as you are not pregnant I don`t see any real problem. I have known of cases where several guys had sex with the same girl on the same night and they all knew about it and they all remained friends. However in your case I believe the less you talk about it the better off you will be. It might be better to stick to one per night.
2007-11-06 16:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know. If I found out a girl I had a crush on did that, I'd assume she's stupid and has a STD to give me and that's about it. Either that or he never had anything for you and just sees you as a friend. If I didn't have a crush on the girl I'd just say she's got game. Nothing wrong with doing that, it's just kind of unattractive if you want a relationship with someone.
2007-11-06 16:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your friend and treats you like that. What has you having sex with two other guys under the influence of alcohol got to do with it?
I am sure he does not consider you as anything more than a friend. If I were you, even I'd still be friends with you, but nothing more.
2007-11-06 16:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gave him some it's not like he gives a crap whether or not you did his friend. Do you actually think he's friend's with you only because he cares? Though I think your friendship may get strained because he unknowingly got sloppy seconds. Next time remember the saying Bro's before Ho's.
2007-11-06 16:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your guyfriend thinks that you just gave the other guy a bj & as we all know from Bill Clinton....that is not really sex
2007-11-06 16:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since the two of you are not serious, (bf &gf),and it seems he has a package deal with you,(with benefits),why should he be upset?I don't know ask him how he feels about you guys..Good luck.
2007-11-06 16:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just think of one word... one single word.... its 3 letters and it describes you!!! he's still your friend because you give him what he wants all the time..!!! but yet he knows what you are.. and once he finds someone else he'll be out ur way
2016-05-28 05:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by syreeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him and see what he tells you. but you should of never played like that. that is the worst thing you could of done. but talk to him and see whats in his head????so you can stop wondering besides if he hasnt heard what happened then its best if it comes from you??
2007-11-06 16:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by sunsetbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does like you or maybe he doesn't give a sh** what people say about you cuz he likes you so much that was wrong but people make mistakes sometimes what matters most is that you dont do it again and stay with one guy
2007-11-06 16:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can you look up the word "wh***" in a dictionary?
2007-11-06 16:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by HeavenlyBliss 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋