My boyfriend and i have had sex 3 times but he never cums. I have been told by people before that i am very good in bed. So I don't think it is me, but what could be causing this. He keeps telling me the sex isn't that great. I thought is was. Any ideas?
2007-11-06 14:48:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is not into you mentally. OR he thinks you are not into him. Belive it or not, not all guys are just there to get their rocks off.
2007-11-06 14:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of possibilities here. All kinds of medications can cause problems with sex. A drop in libido can be produced by depression, stress, anemia, malnutrition, smoking, drinking, anxiety, etc. Then again there are days you just can't ***.
You might try offering him a hand job. This takes little effort on your part and is a very sexy thing to do.
2007-11-06 14:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may be hard to hear but he may not be as emotionally committed to you as you are to him. I would suggest you find someone who thinks the world of you, then he wont be able to stop it. Especially if he tells you the sex isnt that great. Now how cold is that?? I know that may not be the answer you want but when your with the right person its not an issue.
2007-11-06 14:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Txbelle3220 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk a lot during sex, most guys don't like that. You could try giving him head before or a hand job. You could also try communicating with him and ask him why it isn't that great. Different positions might help like girl on top or reverse cowgirl or even doggie style. Him seeing you might help him go. If you into it or up for you could try dirty talk, role playing, porn, or even snm. Talk to him though ask him his opinions. Good luck!
2007-11-06 14:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by KristenP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats very odd is he using drugs???? steriods??? I have no idea other than maybe he did *** and just hide it very well to try and bring down your self esteem. or he is doing the same hiding his orgasm trying to play you so that you will have sex with him more often.try it on him sometime just lay there and do nothing no sounds nothing.
2007-11-06 14:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's already told you what the problem is with him. You just don't want to hear it.
Honey, the problem is you. He doesn't enjoy sex with you. He's TOLD you that he doesn't enjoy sex with you. So ask him what he would like you to do in bed in order to be better.
2007-11-06 14:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he doesn't come? As in, no ejaculation at all?....He needs to see a doctor and he needs to stop blaming his problem on bad sex, or on you.
If someone does not like sex, it is NOT just the other persons fault, EVER. It takes two to tango and if someone isn't enjoying sex they need to work on it as well, it's not just up to you to please him.
Anyway really, he needs to see a doctor.
2007-11-06 14:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try and ask him in a nice way what you can be doing to make the sex better for him. See what he says.
2007-11-06 14:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by *Mizz.Kayy* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GET CHECKED HE HAS AIDS HE FEELS BAD if not u doesnt like u cant tell though cause u no what im saying email if u want to no what im sayin
2007-11-06 14:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Moony3737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experiment with different positions. If you're not good at these kinds of things I know a good school for contortionists.
2007-11-06 14:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by raffy_09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who does not like to have sex with a girl?!? Yeah he must be gay! Ask him if it would turn him on if you put some hair on your back and a*ss?
2007-11-06 15:14:19 · answer #11 · answered by G Money 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋