so theres this guy that ive liked for about 10 months now...alot. nothing too exciting has happened. he's shy. i'm not as shy. besides he's sent me some cute comments on myspace, which only led to me getting my hopes up over absolutely nothing. i'm told that i'm really pretty & i know there are alot of guys that have liked me (i cant like them, because i like him you see hahh)...he has an adorable personality HENCE me liking him, but he's not gorgeous...and i know he hasn't had a lot of "luck" with girls. you'd almost think he'd get the drift that i adore him and want to do something about it. i guess he doesn't :( I GIVE UP...i think.
he just turned 18. i'm 15. i think i need to give up on him. BUT he has done some things to make me think that there IS hope, but it's been too long without enough progress. i spend way too much time thinking about this. AHHHH i think i might feel betternow.i'd appreciate a few words from some real-life breathing ppl out there though.
love love love
2007-11-06 14:36:59 · 11 answers · asked by roo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS him being 18 is NOT an issue. im saving myself for marriage. there would be no sex involved.
2007-11-06 14:37:55 · update #1
YEs I frrookkinng know him dudes!!! haha oh dear jesus.
2007-11-06 14:53:55 · update #2
we go to the same frooking school.
hes a senior. im a sophomore. i know the age difference wouldn't bother him.
2007-11-06 14:57:49 · update #3
myspace...does he live anywhere near you?? and are you sure he is who he says he is (stranger danger). I really don't recommend meeting face to face with people you meet over the internet especially as you are only 15.
But if you do know him "outside" of the internet, then i say go for it, ask him out! Don't wait for him to ask!
EDIT:
Maybe your language/vocab skills scare him ("frook")
2007-11-06 14:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by 1080 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im not Dr.Phil
but you should tell him
im your age too and im a boy
when a boy likes a girl its hard for them to tell
its really nice when the girl tells you
and don't be scared of rejection
thinking what it could be but you never asked
would hurt more than that
2007-11-06 14:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while it may not seem an issue to you to him it may be a very big deal --- sure he may be interested but he probably does not want to even have the appearence of dating you at least until you are over 16 ---- have a talk to him --- in a public place but alone --- clear the air and see if something can be worked for now and the future ---- best wishes
2007-11-06 14:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u gotta just let him know. He sounds like the type of guy that's passive and will let things pass him by because he's not entitled to have them, or so he thinks. Maybe you could give him an eye opening experience. Be in control of a conversation/interaction and almost say ur intentions str8 out, then let him figure out the rest.
2007-11-06 14:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if he kisses you, it's statutory rape. The guy might like you, but it's better for both of you to wait until you're not going to be a liability. Give yourself a chance to play the field a little; if he's "the one" then he'll be there when all's said and done.
2007-11-06 14:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should get his hopes up? maybe he doesnt think you like him, or maybe he thinks hes not good enough for you. also, once you start going out, stay away from police officers, because in the eyes of the law, this would be pedophilia, because he is an adult, and you are a child. stupid, huh? but that's how it is with law.
2007-11-06 14:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♪audrey♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give up bcuz im guessing dat u guys havent even met....he could probably be havin a relationship out there without u even knowin it.....u probably should stick wit people close or around ur age 2......
2007-11-06 14:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your question is very unclear (lol....frook) but you sound like you really like him! that's very nice for you!! there is a girl at my school and she's a freshman dating a senior!! there's another couple like that at my school too, but i'v never met them, see it's not abnormal it's fine to like him. but he may be lying about his age (if you never met him i mean.) he may have assumed that you are18 years old so said that. much luck to you and don't stress it too much
-- <3
2007-11-06 14:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by .... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for u!! but try coming on to him slowly, but not to fast cause he may get nervous.........or think ur weird. Good luck, hope it works out!!
2007-11-06 14:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wear your ovaries on the outside and tell him how you feel.
2007-11-06 14:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by m.donov 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋