16 and never had a real boyfriend?

Question

Is that bad? I can't say I've never been asked out, I have been asked out quite a few times but the guys who asked me out were just not for me. Guys tell me I'm pretty. Maybe im just too picky...but i havent found somone I really, really like. i got close to dating this one guy but he ended up moving away, and I really liked him. Havent found someone Ive liked more then a friend since. I feel like I'm left out since all my friends have boyfriends. :(

Answer 1

i'm in college and i have friends that have never had a bf. theres nothing wrong with being picky... you are just waiting for the right guy and not settling for the first one that comes close

Answer 2

omg, honey, im in the same situation. my best friend got her bf last year (im 16 too!!) and i totally felt left out. I too fell for this hot guy but he didnt move away, we just grew apart. i feel very lonely too sometimes but you know what, i truly believe that one day i will find that guy who is made for ME and it is gonna be worth the wait. and believe me, its not something bad. its way better than people who simply settle for some guy because they want a boyfriend. i believe that you are pretty, youre just honest to yourself. trust me, you will find the special guy and he will make you happier than ever before. you go girl! =)

Answer 3

im in the same situation. im super picky, tho. u might be too. i can relate to the feeling left out part, but i think its kinda good to be picky. to not settle until u get exactly what u want. and eventually you'll find that if ur willing to wait it out. good luck!!

Answer 4

OH my god i had the comparable undertaking! all during middle college i stayed single then my freshman 12 months i replaced into single lower back then finally my sophomore 12 months i got here across a woman that i like and he or she enjoyed me lower back regardless of if it didnt artwork out so finally during summer season college i got here across my new lady buddy so technically interior the comparable experience i've got had the comparable undertaking as you i recommend i in simple terms have been given my first kiss like 2 weeks in the past and im sixteen so dont experience undesirable reason there is different individuals accessible that probable have the comparable undertaking as you and in case you cant locate somebody in simple terms carry your head up severe and shop looking ultimately you will locate somebody, yet to fulfill people come across a guy who you will think of you will wanna date initiate conversing to him in guy or woman then ask for his selection initiate texting him and such then pop the question and if he turns you down then oh properly in simple terms shop attempting and pass to the flicks on like friday nights with a number of your female acquaintances, single adult adult males are continuously there and maybe you may meet somebody there, anyhow i'm hoping you finally end up looking somebody reason you sound like an incredible guy or woman and you will desire to have an stronger half, anyhow wish my lil little bit of advice helps you out in this.

Answer 5

Picky is good ! Please, don't be in a rush. You are very young, and have plenty of time. Very few girls your age, have boyfriends, contrary to popular culture. Those that do, very often, are not the lucky ones. Your friends, who have boyfriends, may very well have compromised their values, in order to fit in.

Answer 6

same here. i previously thought it was just cause i was picky but i recently fell head over heels for one of my close guy friends. i think its just cause you havent met a guy perfect for you yet, but he might just be right around the corner.

Answer 7

Dudet im 16 turning 17 and had a few bf but you don't want to be commited at your age. . . it can be very hurtfull sometimes and you want to get out there and explore . .. trust me

Answer 8

im exactly like you...it's not bad at all...you have standards and are not faking that you like someone just to have a b/f cuz everyone else does...guaranteed those other girls dont truly like their guys and are just with them to be able to brag about it which is really sad

Answer 9

nah your just waiting for the right guy at least your not a prostitute..thats good me too i cant find one i like

Answer 10

The most important relationship you need to seek and develop is your relationship with Christ. Only He can truly satisfy us. The Bible says, "Delight yourself in the LORD and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). The key in that verse is the first part: "Delight yourself in the Lord." When you do that your desires change to line up with God's will.
Many people seek happiness mainly through relationhips. That isn't necessarily wrong; they can be a gift from God. Don't seek friends or dates in the wrong places, however. Instead, ask God to lead you to a church where you can grow both spiritually and socially. Not only will you be likely to meet people with similar interests, but you will be an encouragement to others who need friends also.
Love is a wonderful gift, given to us by God when He created the human race. But love is more than just physical attraction or romantic feelings. These may have their place, but love is much greater than them. A relationship built only on emotional feelings or physical attraction will eventually go stale.
True love says, "I am commited to you, and I will do everything I can to help you and encourage you." True love says, "I'm not just concerned about myself and what I can get from you; instead, I want to put you first, and I promise to do what is best for you, even if it involves sacrifice." The Bible says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking" (1st Corinthians 13:4-5).
Where are you going to find a guy like this? The best place will be church. Now just because a guy goes to church doesn't mean he is truly a Christian. I occasionally go to the zoo, but that doesn't make me a monkey! There are many guys (and girls) who go to church strictly for the social benefits. They see church as a "meet market." That is NOT the reason I encourage you to attend and join a church. However, the chances of you meeting a godly young man are far better in church.
There's a big difference in a church-going guy and a Christian guy. A Christian guy is one who studies and LIVES the Word of God. He loves God above all. He seek God's guidance and wisdom in every aspect of his life. He serves God. And a Christian guy is commited to sexual purity. The Bible says, "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man (or woman) commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body" (1st Corinthians 6:18-20) Sexual purity until marriage is only possible with the help of Christ, and when both parties in the relationship are commited to staying pure until marriage. A Christian guy will be commited to staying pure until marriage; and he will be commited to make sure you stay pure also.
I think it's a matter of saying, "OK, if I'm Christian, I want to please God with my life and live in a way glorifying to Him." That's my passion. Establishing boundaries is crucial as well. Talk to the person you are dating or courting about your commitment to purity and make sure both of you are committed to the same goal.

Two things can help you to stay pure and true to that commitment. First, God is watching all the time. Ask yourself, "How would God feel about what I am doing right now?" Second, "Am I glorifying to God in all my actions?" Pray for strength to stand strong. Pray with your friends, and stay accountable to others in your life who will ask you about the purity of your relationships. Even if I'm in a room with a girl, I'll keep the door wide open so that anyone can walk in, and I'm not inviting temptation.
God does not want you dating guys that aren't saved. The Bible is clear. "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial(another word for Satan) ? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?"(2nd Corinthians 6:14-15) God spells out His reasons clearly. Those that are saved are: righteous, light, and of Christ. Those that are lost are: wicked, darkness, and of Satan. You may say, "David, when this passage talks about being yoked together it's referring to us not marrying an unbeliever." If you see that in this passage, you are right. The passage is definetly talking about not marrying an unbeliever. There is nothing mentioned in those verses about dating an unbeliever. However, we can draw a practical application from this passage regarding dating. How so? It's simple. Logic says that one day you will marry someone that you date. So if you're not to marry an unbeliever, why would you want to waste your time dating one?
If you are to someday marry, God has someone already picked out for you. The Bible says, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33). Today, you can enter into the most awesome love relationship you could ever imagine! It's a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. Open your heart to Christ. Spend time getting to know Him better through Bible study, prayer, and fellowship with other believers. Then, over time, God will bring you the man He has for you.