so she doesn't get offended
2007-11-06 13:53:06 · 60 answers · asked by Cyrus 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
make sure she knows that you really care about her, and casually bring up how hot you think it would be if she shaved at least part of it off, maybe leave a landing strip, not necisarrily a brazillian cut. or like someone already suggested do cool shapes. Nad's has a kit for the bikini area for waxing it into cool shapes and it includes the shapers. You can buy it at Wal-mart.
2007-11-06 15:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by c_northcutt96 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her how much more sexy she would be if she had less/no hair. But, ya gotta be smooth though. Tell her to try it one time, and if she doesn't like it, then you won't push the subject. If she has the "Well, I don't know" approach, then tell her, if it'll help her out, you'll shave her so she knows that you really do have an interest in her looks and are providing positive input and she'll know what you like. Tell her that you both can work together so you both will be comfortable with the new look.
Best thing to do is ask at the right time, when she's in the right mood. And, if you have to, tell her if she does, then you both can go to (insert store here) to get her some new undeclothing; new underclothing for a new experience.
Hope this helps! Good luck!!
2007-11-06 14:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jake C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may casually mention to her that you like that area shaved, but you can NOT tell her to shave!!! It is her choice, her preference and if you try to make her do something she does not want, most likely it will really not matter. You will not be getting anywhere near that area anyway!!
2007-11-06 13:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by fire4511 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you cannot TELL her anything.
You can politely ask, or say something like, "I'd like it if I could feel you better, without all of this in the way," so that she doesn't feel as pressured as you saying, "Why don't you shave down there? You're too hairy!"
Secondly, don't think you can ask if you won't reciprocate. How would you feel if she said, "Well I wish you'd shave too - I think all of that hair on you is disgusting!" Think about that, and how you'd feel, if she were to ask you the same thing.
2007-11-06 13:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could offer it as a suggestion or ask her if she has ever considered it. Maybe she has and has just been afraid that you might not approve. I was always afraid and my then boyfriend helped me over that fear and even turned it into something personal by shaving me himself. Weird at first, yes, but it was an interesting experience. Maybe you could suggest it as a personal thing that you would like to do to her. Maybe she would go for it. Good luck.
2007-11-06 13:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by A3Mama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should shave yours. But if she doesn't want to shave the whole thing you shouldn't push the issue. It's painful growing back and it looks like the private area of a child- which should not be a turn on. Maybe you two could compromise and she can just trim it up a little.
2007-11-06 13:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Propose it as a game : "what if we tried... i'm gonna shave mine, you shave yours, we'll see how different it feels"
Or then again, tell her you've always had a fantasy for shaved women, and dare her to try it with you (she won't feel attack if you talk about your desires and not her hygiene)
When she does it compliment her "Oh how soft" and make her feel good about it (maybe go down on her and say "Oh I like it so much when you shave yourself" or something like that)
2007-11-06 13:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by Fannie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Between my fiance and myself it started out as a dare to get him to do it b/c I really didn't like the hair. Since then he has seen that performance was better if he shaved and did it every time he felt it was coming back. Personally I don't know why she wouldn't want to be shaven, it is so much more neater and cleaner anyway. You could try daring her to do it, let their be an enhance in your secual experience and then tell her that you like it that way so much better. Good Luck.
2007-11-06 13:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by Blessed1 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ah-ha! a VERY tricky situation.
You do one of two things:
1. Trim and groom (or totally shave) YOUR pubic hair, so next time she comes in contact with your area, the thought is fresh in her mind and might prompt a conversation.
2. Shave it for her while she's sleeping.
2007-11-06 13:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about you shave first... Why do woman always have to be the one to shave? Men need just as much grooming if not MORE>>Good luck
2007-11-06 13:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋