I used to really look forward to a night out but since I was about 21 (im now 25) I prefer to stay i with a bottle of vodka and my cat. My boyfriend loves going out but I think it's a waste of money. I'm not saying I never go out but this year i've been out once and hated it. Does anyone else feel the same or am I just a miserable cow?
2007-11-06 13:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by she_woman_cat_type_thing 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Women tend to realise they are being ripped off on a night out sooner than men do. And we resent it more because we know damn well that we could have a couple of friends round for drinks and a meal or to watch a movie for less money, in an environment we feel comfortable in and without worrying about finding a taxi to get home in or being accosted by drunks! Every now and then you do get to go someplace really fantastic or are served a really good meal..and then you enjoy yourself and don't feel as if you've been robbed as you usually do no matter how little the event or the food cost; but these are really rare occasions.
Why spoil your precious spare time with noisy strangers, crowded rooms and boredom?If your boyfriend wants to go for a drink with his mates now and then, what the hell, let him do it so long as he doesn't forget to spend some time with you..and if he likes to take you out with him then why not humour him now and then..birthdays and blue moons..so long as you get some say in where you go and what you do.
2007-11-06 13:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by selina.evans 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That`s not a real problem, I`m always at home, if not at school. It all depends on how you feel. If staying at home really makes you feel better, then that`s your choice. It does not matter how other people see it. Now, you can stay with a bottle of Vodka, as long as you don`t drink the whole of it in one night. Believe me, alcohol is REALLY bad for health, so, better stay away from it when you get the chance to. Try CHOCALATE instead. Except a few pounds, it can`t do much harm to you if you care doing a bit of jogging everyday.
Hope it makes you feel better. : )
2007-11-06 18:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people grow out of nightclubs, and start to learn some money sense
£3.00 for a watered down pint surrounded by awful music and people I dont like?
No Thanks!
The only place I go out to now is the arts centre for some good live music but thats not often. Im done with clubs forever now.
2007-11-06 13:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Northern Spriggan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your a depressive working on alcoholism. I'm not saying you need to be the party girl and go out every night. I'm saying, vodka is the drink of alcoholics. I think you need to figure out why you had this radical change in personality at such a definitive time.
Your not a miserable cow. You need to go to a councillor. You need to find things that you would like to go out and do. Like maybe - going to a book group.
Some people are home bodies, but your choice of company concerns me. You might be dealing with an anxiety disorder.
2007-11-06 13:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no your just a homebody! Nothing wrong with that. you seem settled now youve bagged your man and you dont feel the need to dance the night away out on the razzle hooking up with guys. You aint miserable at all. Pretty logical really. Just dont know why youre worrying about it. SOme people takes years to grow out of the party stage. Others grow up pretty quick and dont feel an urge to do that anymore. You aint searching for it which is why your content. Stop worrying chick!
2007-11-06 13:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I AM NOT trying to be rude, but drinking alone is often the road to alcoholism.
It is a sure sign of depression.
Don't know if you are a "cow" or not, but you should not be locking yourself away at this age, and having your boyfriend go out alone (good for him) is not healthy for you.
2007-11-06 14:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21! I used to go clubbing alot, but your right! It does get boring! Its stupidly expensive and techincally pointless.....especially if u have a partner! Not sure id choose to stay in with a cat tho? Id get some mates round
2007-11-06 13:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drinking alone is a sign of alcoholism. I have to agree with the second answerer on that. It's okay to not be that social, but drinking alone is pretty bad. I recommend that you get help right away. It sounds like having yourself evaluated by a psychologist or psychiatrist is the first step. Please help yourself.
2007-11-06 17:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't drink but i would rather stay at home and relax.I may go out 3 times a year.
2007-11-06 13:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by less 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm out tonight, but look where I am (at my brother's house). I like to be home but didn't want to listen to stuff or argue tonight.
2007-11-06 13:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋