i cant seem to shake the feeling that she doesnt love me anymore or trust me. she still doesnt tell me everything. she isnt 100% honest with me. she holds stuff back from me. and whenever she talks with her exs, i get very jealous, and she knows that.
and she still isnt even here yet, in cali, she lives in canada.
she keeps saying that she will try and make it, but she has said that like 10 times already, maybe more. and im getting sick and tired of waiting for her.
what should i do. what should i tell her.
i really need help here.
2007-11-06 13:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by william riveley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, it sounds like you are having a lot of issues with your fiance that need to be resolved. I'm not sure why you are separated and in two different places, but it's time to focus on the things that are most important to you and then talk to her about it.
Really think about what you want to say and really concentrate on the issues you have. Then explain to her that you are having issues with a, b, and c.
If she refuses to listen or make compromises, then you need to start thinking about yourself and doing what it takes to make yourself happy in your life and future--which may or may not include her.
2007-11-06 14:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how you came to know that she talk to her ex since she is so far away from you unless she told you.
If she told you that she is talking to her ex, then she is being truthful. However, if she did not tell you and yet talked with her ex, then it would mean she was being dishonest with. Not that you can be sure that she is honest now, but you could consider giving her the benefit of doubt.
I don't know how long you have been waiting, but if it is more than 6 months, then probably she is just keeping you hanging. Now you need to set up a deadline for her. Tell her that you need to get married and would not like to wait beyond a certain point and that you do not want to force her into anything.
If she fails to meet the deadline, find another girl.
2007-11-06 13:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
William:
Dude! It's time to seek out a
*New Lover! (*One here in Cali)
You have a Fiancee?
WHY? You sound a little too
inexperienced to travel this pathway!
Let's re-cap: There IS~
Lack of Love~
Trust Issues~
Communication Issues~
Questionable Honesty~
Lover Not forthright with you~
Jealous Issues~
Talking to X Lovers~
Multiple FALSE, Mixed Messages~
Lack of Patience~
Frustration~
etc.
Does this sound like a proper
Foundation to sign a Legal Marriage
Business Contract together?
What should you do?
Enjoy your life NOW!
STOP this Insanity!
Severe all communication with her!
And if you you do NOT do this?
You are setting yourself up for
a Catastrophe! (A TRUE Fiancee
is the OPPOSITE of the above!)
What should you tell her?
(IF you talk 2 her?)
Read her the "Riot ACT"!
Get your BALLS BACK!
Set your perimeters!
How about~
"Bye-Bye~ Baby!"
Good Luck William!
I live in Hollyweird, California!
Our Lives are NOT A Goofy
"Dress-Rehersal"!
This is YOUR LIFE & FUTURE~
Dude!
2007-11-06 13:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he likes you, rather in the experience that your buddy says he informed her he does. I completely be responsive to the place you're coming from on the priority of what might take place on your friendship in case you broke up. i think of as long as you 2 have sturdy thoughts for one greater, your friendship is working a threat besides in case you are not getting collectively. at last somebody will lose interest stiff in the discomfort of craving for an intensive buddy and could provide the friendship up. unhappy, yet real lots of the time. as nicely, I basically broke up with my boyfriend 2 days in the past and it sucks because of the fact we've been buddies first, yet i can enable you be responsive to that i don't experience sorry with reference to the relationship in any respect. I even have discovered lots from it. sturdy success!
2016-09-28 12:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk things out, share your feelings, open up to each other. the best couples are able to communicate. ...she may just be anxious about coming from canada to the US or she might not be ready to get married... whatever the case, just express how you both feel and dont let your imagination take over your relationship. if you cant trust each other, then it may not be the best time to get married. i think its normal to get jealous..my bf is really sensitive with the exes issue. the best thing you can do it just...talk. good luck!
2007-11-06 13:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by cathyehhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her honestly about how you feel. You don't want this to be the biggest mistake of your life, do you? If you tell her how you feel, she'll know how to act appropriately and she will start to care more about what you think.
Hope you feel better soon.
Good luck!!
2007-11-06 13:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Shoes♥ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no trust... no marrage unless you want a whole lot of drama..
2007-11-06 13:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by <3 luke is here!! <3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could fly
2007-11-06 13:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋