Guys answer: Is it true?

Question

all men please answer SINCERELY,

I have read this and is wondering if its true
in a relationship: both sides loved each other but then you broke up and you see that the girl is doing really well without you is it true that

1. you get more attracted/drawn to her you almost want to get her back

OR

2. be happy that shes doing well

~most guys i asked who gave an honest answer answered no. 1
im just wondering, what about you what will you do?

Answer 1

Simple it is about unconditional love verses conditional love, look at your own answers. I'm "2" if I truly love them, and if I'm a vindictive animal out for my own enjoyment I pick "1". I can do this becuase I know both my sides. But the points valide. A person picking one is driven by a sense of pride, of conqest, an ideal of what can they get from you, ESPAICALLY sense your doing good. 2 On the other hand is driven by heart, by empathy, because only a person that cared enough to understand a person enough to be happy for her good fortune, truly loved her, such is life, such is love....... but most guys will pick 1, thats our society..... 2. thou will confuse most people thinking about love relationships because they don't understand how friendship becomes a relationship, that is another thing all together thou.....