every girl finds me disgustingly ugly?

Question

im a senior in highschool and no girl has ever been attracted to me. im quite skinny (i do work out but gaining muscle is impossible cause of a medical condition) i have some acne scars left and i have a very deep voice. whats wrong with me what can i change? every girl finds me ugly they say so

here are two photos

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Answer 1

You are not that bad. I would cut the hair though. Your main downfall is your personality. You have to be confident in yourself for others to be attracted to you. Use your charisma and confidence to win people over and don't worry about looks.

BTW many girls don't like bulky guys anyway. My husband was very skinny when we met 5 ft. 10 and wore a size 29 waist. He was confident and presistant. He won me over skinny, with pointy chin, achne scars and all.

Answer 2

You're not ugly at all. How do you know that no girl has ever been attracted to you? The problem is, if you believe yourself to be ugly then you'll give off some very negative and offputting vibes. But I repeat you're NOT ugly. Start having some confidence and faith in yourself. I'm a lot older than you and, believe me, I wasted a lot of time as a teenager believing I wasn't attractive and now when I look at photos from back then, I can't believe how well I actually looked. When I confided in my friends after years that I always thought I was ugly back then they were shocked. I don't know who the person in the photos (my ones) was cause she certainly isn't the ugly girl I saw in my head if that makes sense! The mind can play funny tricks on us, especially when we're a confused adolescent. Good luck to you :-)

Answer 3

Well, why not try some face cream or something. I would highly recommend trying Proactiv to help with your acne. I use it myself and trust me, it works wonders on my face. That might help out with your acne problem.

Maybe getting a better haircut. I mean, don't take it the wrong way, but get your hair shorter. Sometimes girls like a guy who's clean cut.

Or if you really want, try to change up your wardrobe a bit. I saw your shirt that you were wearing, and to be honest, not quite the best shirt to wear. Try picking something out that's no to 'catchy' but moreso on the 'preppy' look if you want to call it.

I don't really know you, know you, i guess, so I don't know how you act or your personality, but try what I listed. Also, act proud about yourself. That's the number one thing here. If you believe in yourself, other's will too. Just give it some time.

I hope I helped you out a bit. Good luck with it!

Answer 4

There is nothing ugly about you.....If you need to gain some weight.....eat as often as you can.....And if you are not real active you sure will gain weight......Hamb. fries and soda are making people over weight.....drink a malt or ice-cream of some kind with that hamb.... And yes lifting weights are very good because it will build up your muscles....Eat a lot and work out.....Try to relax, don't get real stressed out that burns energy.....Eat candy bars a lot and french fries...these things are not that good for you but it will make you gain weight....
What age are you??? If you have your own money you can spend it on food right now..til you get the weight you want...how tall are you?
But forget about being ugly you are far from it....You have very nice features......Pray that God will help you to be at peace with yourself.....
When I was in high school there was a little guy that I would not say he was good looking but even the queens in school would date him....Why? He had a wonderful personality....He didn't act like he had one thing wrong with him....He was very out going and fun to be around....Kind to every one....But loads of fun to be around....He did not let his size put him down and probably people said something to him at times but he did not let it trouble him at all. I loved his personality......

Answer 5

I dont think your ugly. Go to a dermatologist about the acne scars, see if they can help. Your not the only skinny guy out there, so thats not a problem. Maybe try changing your wardrobe. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Disgustingly ugly? No one should ever say that about them self.

I'm sure their has been a few girls that has crushed on you. I guess you can just call them secret admirers..girls don't always tell guys that they like them. Anyway, I think personality and confidence is key. If you show others how outgoing and optimistic you are then I'm sure some girls have become attracted to you already. Just be yourself. And if they're rude then don't talk to bitches like that. They don't deserve any of your time.

Answer 7

you're not ugly - you have nice eyes and nice hair
smile :)
most high schoolers have skin issues - yours doesn't seem terribly severe from the photos

you don't have a 'baby face' - some girls in high school are attracted to that - I think you'll find girls becoming more interested in you as you move into the young adult age group

a deep voice is very nice - and not all girls are looking for hulking muscles

girls who tell you that you're ugly are immature - not worth your time worrying about them

Answer 8

Hello Darling,
I saw the pictures and I would say that from those pictures you aren't ugly at all. If you said that you were quite skinny that might be the problem. You also didn't smile in either of the photos. It would've helped more if we were able to see your teeth. Other than not showing your teeth sweetheart, your absolutely fine.

Answer 9

Hey,
I seen your pics there nice =]
I will give u some tips ok ;)
1) grow a goaty beard (like a mostash )
2) shave ur hair not all of
3) were a t-shirt plain darkish blue
4)baggy jeans(light blue)
5)trainers(any)
6) Thats ur outfit am sure u will look great!!!

Dont listen to know one there just haters!! bye hunnie x mwa

Answer 10

ok well your not ugly. how do you know that is how girls find you have you talked to any? try a hair cut.. my boyfriend has long hair but it works for him. Also my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and I was his very first girlfriend ever. just keep trying the right one will come along and another thing i bet our a sweet heart the ones with out the girls usually are and they are the ones who actually care about their girlfriend when they get one.. hey if you want to talk email me.. My email is [e-mail] okay well just keep your chin up .. +Ashley