...would you rather she be patient and you start discussing emotional stuff when you're ready? Because we all know girls are usually ready to talk about this stuff before guys. Thoughts? Experiences? Anyone? Anyone? ;)
2007-11-06 12:33:14 · 17 answers · asked by Shera 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No context, just a general question. :) Most guys I've dated have been very communicative once I initiate a topic. This new guy is a little tougher to read...not a big deal just curious...
2007-11-06 12:42:53 · update #1
...and by emotional stuff I mean talking about the relationship, how you feel about how things are going, stuff like that.
2007-11-06 12:59:32 · update #2
ick.......thats a good and hard question how about like a little bit here and a little bit there, and not overwhelm us because then we might run, but don't be too cold though, just shake a little bit on like salt or pepper every now and then and season us up. Wow sorry this answer just turn all cheesey with the salt and pepper and seasoning us up, ok i am going to stop...Good question
2007-11-06 12:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by NewOrderFan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys prefer having fun and not discussing serious and emotional stuff until 2-3 weeks after getting their girlfriend. Have some fun, then when you think he is ready, try to bring up the topic. If he willingly talks about it, he is ready, if not, then you may want to wait a bit longer.
2007-11-06 12:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zip it. But not for the reasons you think.
Not to be unsympathetic, but why is someone else interested in knowing about all your emotional issues.
I think young women today are very self centered and telling anyone and everyone in ear-shot is immature and demonstrates unilateral thinking.
If you need therapy or need to discuss ligitmate emotional issues find a group or professional. That is a more mature way to deal with these issues.
2007-11-06 12:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Gatsby216 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy, but i would say that you could scare a guy away by being too emotional in the begining, let him get to know you first, then open up.
2007-11-06 12:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by shornet15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your pie hole shut. No guy wants to hear that emotional whiny crap.
Ok Now that I got the stereotypical response out of the way.
Try and talk to him let him know you want to talk about it. If he seem not willing at all let it go and try later.. Don't force it but let him know you do want to talk
2007-11-06 12:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have emotional stuff!!!! are you serious this would be tantamount to admitting to having a feminine side .There is never a good time for emotion it should be spontaneous anyway I'm not sure if you are referring to emotions or hangups
Or are you just wary or moving from words like , "like" and moving to words such as love
2007-11-06 12:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by madnob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no pat answer. Sometimes its better for one to go first, other times its better for the other. Needs, circumstance, personality, and communication styles all contribute to whats best for the situation.
2007-11-06 12:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls crying about personal stuff and thnkgs like that is pretty much a turn on for me ^_^
gets me motivated to want to be with that girl and to have a relationship with here, something to build off of lol
2007-11-06 12:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sugar you leave us no way to answer because we have no context to answer. Did you fight? or do you just feel like talking about your emotionally scarred past?
If you want to tell him about why your dad doesn't love you or how its horrible being adopted, wait till around week 3.
If he can't handle it, its not too late to bail out. If you wait longer he will be trapped, if you tell him too soon, like your first or second date, your just no fun.
2007-11-06 12:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by zorro1701e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
permit me permit you already know something authentic off it sounds opt to me which you're too effective to her. It additionally feels like she in basic terms sees you as a chum with benifits. She doesnt choose somebody she can walk throughout she needs somebody with secret, somebody who can suprise her usual with something new. look in case you particularly love her and opt to be together with her I say supply her it sluggish. supply up seeing her plenty supply up calling her. Then she can ask your self nicely why isnt he calling me, why hasnt he got here to be sure me? it would sound extraordinary yet try it it would get her interest to allow her comprehend that your foreal and you opt to be together with her. this will not be the main suitable concept whether it continually worked for me.
2016-10-01 23:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋