My new girlfriend, whom I met the other week, isn't giving it up everyday like a lot of my exes have in the past. We have only had sex three times this week, and I haven't gotten any since Saturday. I am about to go insane! The sexual frustration is killing me and masturbation just isn't the same, as you all know. Should I hook up with other girls for one-nighters whenever my current girlfriend withholds? Or should I try to get her to make sex a daily ritual (twice a day on weekends)?
2007-11-06 12:21:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are such a d i c k. do you really think that cheating on your gf is the best answer? why don't you talk to her about what is going on, instead of hurting her emotionally, for a physical need that you could actually take care of yourself (masturbation).....
just because your gf is not being your personal whore does not mean you need to violate her trust and scar her for life by breaking her heart. you are a heartless pig, who does not even deserve to have a girlfriend.
2007-11-06 12:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by jleigh120 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, whats the problem? She's no mind-reader. Tell her point blank "I like to have sex everyday and that's pretty important to me. If not, we might have to cut this short."
Whatever she says, you know your next move.
Cheating isn't really a solution if you want to have sex everyday. Just find someone who will have sex everyday- or just have random encounters. why bring any drama into this?
But on another note, not many girls have the time really to have sex everyday (we got lives, yha know and things to do, money to make, friends to hang out with ect.) You were lucky to get girls in the past who have time for sex everyday. Maybe you should realize that not everyone has it that often (I have met VERY few ever in my life who have that sort of free time or need) and strive for 3-5 times. It's kinda hard to find one night stands for every night of the week. Oh, here's an idea, just have a group of people you have casual sex with so when one doesn't want it or doesn't have time, get another. Let them know, though.
This whole every night thing may be fine now, but realize if you ever want a on-on-one thing in the future, it will be pretty hard to keep this sort of thing up with all the other things people do with their lives.
2007-11-08 20:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by sgregory1522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. neither.. you seem a little messed up if you ask me. If you can't live without sex.. you should get some help. And if you're actually asking people if you should cheat on your girlfriend.. maybe you should rethink even having one in the first place. If she doesn't want to have sex with you everyday you should be able to deal.. or break up with her and have fun with ur one-nighters.. You are ridiculous. If you ask me you're the kind of guy that makes chicks hate the male race. Go jump off a bridge.
2007-11-06 20:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to slow your hormones down. You are too horny! three times in one week , some guys would love to have and you're complaining? It's obvious you don't want a girlfriend as much as you do a sex buddy. Sounds like women mean nothing to you except for physical pleasure. If you want to "swing" then that's your business, but you ar way too immature to be anything but a responsible boyfriend to any self respecting woman. If she decides not to "put out" then that's her call. Really seems like all you want is sex, so if that is all you want from a woman, it really shouldn't bother you if you sleep around. If your current girlfriend finds out you are doing that and dumps you, then she is probably better off and you really won't care a couple of days later. If you truly love her and want to be with her, then don't have sex with other women and give her the space she needs. Somes women's sex drive just isn't as strong and youreally need to learn to respect that in her or any other women you're with.
2007-11-06 20:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by bookworm019 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well here is something for you, sex is like riding a bike, it takes practice. You need to show her something that will blow her mind and that will keep her coming back for more. Dont cheat, it will come back to bite you on the a** later in life.
2007-11-06 20:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let up a little she may need time to get used to being with you do not cheet on her she will hate you maybe she feels like if you have sex everyday your just with her for the sex
2007-11-06 20:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you, only sex 3 times this week....thats more than some get in a month . no sympathy here...go wack off
2007-11-06 20:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a life. You need to cut this relationship off, because you're a real creep. You will not remain loyal to her, so just leave her out of your sorry slimey life, you pig!
2007-11-06 20:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Marilyn A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on her.
You're just going to have to talk TO HER and come up with possible solutions. Maybe once you talk to her she'll be more aware of your needs.
2007-11-06 20:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by LD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definetily recomend not cheatn but jus try to get her to give it up and if she resist dont press her till she get pissed jus wait it will make it more worth it
2007-11-06 20:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by O.G. J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋