but when we get together he's all over me. The sex is still awesome and when he holds me I feel like I can lay there forever. His lifestyle is what keeps him busy but I still feel like he can answer me sometimes. We talk in the morning and then thats it until around 10 or 11 at night. I don't think he's cheating but then again I don't want to sound naive like it couldn't be happening. Sometimes I feel like i can't breathe without him and every time he ignores me it feels like another knife was stabbed through my heart. Should I leave him? I know he loves me too I just don't know what to do in this situation. It's crazy because usually I'm the one giving the advice not asking for it!!! Help me out what would you do ladies!?
2007-11-06 12:11:28 · 13 answers · asked by Live.Laugh.Love 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe because you are smothering him. Guys HATE talking on the phone and texting. Any guy that disagrees with me is either lying or gay. As a guy, if I am with my friends and I get a text from my girl, I can't respond right away because then all night I keep hearing whipping sound effects.
How retarded does this sound if I asked you this.
"My girlfriend boyfriend ignores me when I call and text message her. When we are together, it is great. Should I leave her?"
I just vomited when I read this. Yes. He doesn't text you. It must mean that he is cheating. Leave him.
Dummy.
2007-11-06 12:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
I'm sure that if you have been going out for 6 months that he wouldn't just up and leave and ignore you, maybe there is something wrong with your phone company and there lines are down or maybe he is just busy at the moment and didn't have to time to answer your text messages. I'm sure theres nothing to be worried about just give him some time to answer them. If in a few hours you still haven't gotten a reply, then try calling him. :)
2016-03-18 02:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call or text as often. Even if he loves you dearly, he still needs a bit of breathing room! If he ignores your texts, he's probably busy, hasn't got credit, or can't think of anything to say and doesn't want to spend the money just to text back and say "ok" or "uh huh."
2007-11-06 12:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave that. He should be happy to talk to you, or, if hes very busy, he should care enough about you to take 3 seconds and text you back 'Cant talk now, I call you later'.
2007-11-06 12:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by boots6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, not to sound harsh, but maybe he's using you for sex?
You're just going to have to ask him how he really feels about you and see what you can do from there
2007-11-06 12:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by LD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it and see what his response would be.. monitor the way that he is talking to you.. you should be able to tell if he is lying or not. If he starts to get mad about anything then that means that he is guilty about something so that should give you your answer. Let me know how it works out!!! Good Luck!!
2007-11-08 05:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Toya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, but a good advice would be not to suffocate him with calls.. remember, less is more! It worked for me once, with my love, and I recomend it to you, after you talk to him about how you feel (and he wont be mad if he loves you that much) try less is more, dont be obssessed, he will be so much interested in you.. trust me!
2007-11-06 12:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is totally urgent that u need for him to call or txt back? Or u just trying to keep in touch? Just talk it out with him and limit how often u txt & call. If u want to stay in touch... send him hilarious txt jokes (or sexy jokes). If u still want the relationship... just work it out.
2007-11-06 12:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i am so sorry boys have changed a lot. If he does that why are you wanting to talk to him anyway i bet hes hitting on another girl.SORRY!if i were you i say leave him NOW
2007-11-06 12:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by juhee bhatt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry booh if hes the first and last thing he wanna hear then chances are he feel guil early in da mornin and late at night so he might be cheatin but u gotta check up on it
2007-11-06 12:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Chia_Doll101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋