Why is it when I treat girls with respect, always treat them good and never hurt them, they seem to prefer guys who are mean to them? Don't you girls like a nice guy or prefer bad guys??
2007-11-06 12:04:06 · 29 answers · asked by IAN B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some girls think that a nice guy is boring, personilaly, i LOVE nice guys.
2007-11-06 12:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Having dated many "bad" guys, I recently came to a theory: Women are attracted to the not so nice guys because they think they can fix them. They for some reason think that deep down there is a genuinely nice guy that they can bring out (even if there isn't). Hence, good guys, they do get girls, but only after they've been extremely jaded by the fact that most "bad" guys are genuinely bad, no nice side that will ever prevail.
So treat the jaded woman with respect and endless patience and I'm pretty sure it'll pay off.
2007-11-06 20:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Chewbekah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls that actually like guys who treat them bad probably have emotional issues of some sort. That being said, when I was younger I went for the bad boys- they treated me okay but they were just always getting into trouble. Now I go for more stable and secure guys, but they always seem to have a bit of an edge, a little bad boy in them if you will. It is possible to be a nice guy and still keep things exciting with her!
2007-11-06 20:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Shera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Must Be Picking The Wrong Type Of Girl :/
Not All Girls Are Like That, You'll Find The Right Girl One Day, Just keep Looking
2007-11-06 20:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Allstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have to get the right balance. Nice guys are the best, but if guys are too nice, it gets a bit boring, or you start treating them like a doormat because you know they will still be nice. Girls are strange! Including me :)
2007-11-06 20:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what girls you're talking about, because most of the ones i know (including myslef) like nice guys. The reason why we find "bad" guys so attractive is because somethimes nice guys can get a little boring...
Just stay nice, and keep us entertained, and we'll stay away from the mean ones ;)
2007-11-06 20:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lenni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been dating the bad boys my whole life, and now i married one. it is the chase and the whole hope that you can change them or tame them, whatever you want to call it. but, as i have found out, the hard way, that is not always the case. as the girls you date get older, and get burned by these bad boys, they will come to respect and appreciate guys like you. so, be true to yourself, and you will find the right girl. in the long run, we all want the nice guy!
2007-11-06 20:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by jleigh120 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.
so many guys have asked me this.
You see, girls like guys who take control. A guy who plays hard to get. A challenge rather. Don't just be nice all the time. I know it seems retarded, but us women are pretty complicated. Do stuff like get a girl mad at you, then kiss her.
Good luck!
2007-11-06 20:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by liabel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's just the way life is...
most girls fall for the bad guys, i don't
i always go out with nice guys because they treat me good :]
2007-11-06 20:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by antioxidant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we girls do like nice guys, its just that every girl likes a bit of rough every now and then even if its just a bit of spontaneity or surprises to keep us going or to take away the boring routine by which we live. Or really i do not know you personally and you may just be too nice, sometimes you can just do too much!
2007-11-06 20:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by blossom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well any girl that would rather have a guy treat her badly is either stupid, or maybe thats all they see is guys who treat girls badly. Idk. But don't even bother with girls like this because they are just being immature. Eventually u will find a girl that appreciates ur actions. Good luck!
2007-11-06 20:10:57 · answer #11 · answered by Cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋