i really love him but i dont know what to do!
i dont picture myself with anyone else and i lost my you know to him??
and my mom doesnt really like him but my dad doesnt really care he just wants me to be carefull what can i tell my mom?
2007-11-06 11:47:48 · 7 answers · asked by amanda w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say at 14 that you are too young to be worried about this. Concentrate on your home work. That's my advice
2007-11-06 11:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, lets think here. You are 14 and he is 16, you both have a lot of life still to live. At your point, I would be tempted to say that it is more infatuation instead of love, which is the case in a lot of young teenage relationships. By giving up your virginity to him, that is a big commitment, but are you sure that he can be there to back you up for the rest of your life? I honestly don't think that your mind is completely developed to comprehend that. I'm not saying that it isn't possible, but it is improbable. I think that you should take things slowly, and have him show your mom that he knows how to treat a lady other than sexual pleasure. If your dad knows, he most definitely told your mom, and maybe that is why she doesn't like him much. Just lay off the physical aspect of your relationship for a while, and focus on the friend aspect of the word boyfriend/girlfriend.
2007-11-06 20:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by chadwick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mom. Your mother is watching out for you to make sure you don't make the same mistakes she possibly made or other woman have made. You should focus more on sports, organizations, getting involved. You're quite too young to know about love. Believe me, there's nothing for you 2 to learn because you must mature mentally, physically, and emotionally. Nothing wrong with going out, but be very careful. Watch your reputation!
2007-11-06 19:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by WonderGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, than you should. Take your dad's advice, though about being careful. Don't blame mom for being strict. She just wants to be careful like your dad.
2007-11-06 19:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Honorable D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*gasp* thats the first and probably last time i will here that a dad doesnt care! woahhh
*ahem* anywayss
if you love him and he loves you(make sure he isnt jsut inlove with certain *parts* of you, then i say go for it :)
2007-11-06 19:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dollface;) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you like i tell all my friend age is just a number......and i go with a 15 year old and i am 11 years old.....
2007-11-06 20:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Tay-Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre too young to really know what love is.
2007-11-06 19:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Dalek Queen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋