HOW CAN I MAKE HIM LIKE ME!!!!! please helppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp?

Question

went to this party a few months ago in san diego and i got this guys number. hes really cute and i cant stop thinking about him. ive been talking to him a lot since the party but how can i make him like me or how can i tell if he likes me. also hes 3 to 4 yrs older than me

Answer 1

Flirt in his direction.

Answer 2

Idk how to make him like you but I can tell you how to know if he dose!

physical Signs if a boy likes you
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

Answer 3

All you can do is make the move to call him and talk to him. It is too early to tell if he likes you! Just have some convo, keep it light and good luck. P.S. You can't make someone like you. Keep in mind you may get to know him and not like HIM!

Answer 4

Your desire to "make him" like you that is what is actually hindering your chances with him. You are inadvertantly wanting to force the result which is putting you in the unnatural postion of not being yourself. Relax and be yourself--that should be enough. He either will or wont "like you" based on that.

Answer 5

be yourself dont change your image to impress him cause then that is really goin make him start havin doubts but like i said just be yourself and the rest will take care of itself.


p.s. i have some encouraging words for u

YOU ARE BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED. WHENEVA GOD SAYS HE WILL MAKE A PROMISE THAT IS A GUARENTEE. CAST YOUR CARES UPON HIM FOR HE CARETH FOR U.

Answer 6

okay..
try to be yourself around him and stuff ive learned that guys like that..
ways you can tell he likes you is the way he acts...
like if he calls you alot..
or if he makes comments on how you look..
but i need to know what the guys really like to answer this question completely.

Answer 7

hun thats really alot older then you
ask him if hes older there more mature and he will tell you the truth without letting that affect the friendship.

Answer 8

-Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or not the coolest person. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for lies.
-Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You've got to walk before you run, right?
-Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
-Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while.
-Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
-Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated, and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
-Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
-Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.
-You need to have the time of your life
What if he likes someone else? If the guy you like likes another girl, don't give up!! If they're not dating, you're still in the game. One of the best pieces of advice comes from a book: "Forget about this other girl and start worrying about yourself, if you really want to be a contender. You’ve got to get in the game before you can knock out your opponent. So quit feeling sorry for yourself. Take action. Do yourself up; flirt with his friends. Make him notice you. Make him work for it." -Shrug, by Jenny Han. This is exactly right; don't give up if he likes someone prettier, just knock her out of the game. Be more flirtatious or do something to make him notice YOU. Remember, if he tries to hook up with her through you, do something to make him think she doesn't like him (unless she DOES like him, then the best advice is let them date and come back when they're over). Be a supportive friend if he gets his heartbroken-- that way, when he's over her, he will remember that you were there for him. However, be careful not to become the "rebound".
-DON'T be shy! being shy will just make him think that you're not interested. and if he has an interest in you, and you in him, then don't be afraid to be a little outgoing. be yourself, but have some fun with it!
After going out for a while. take it a step up. either he will hopefully invite you over or he come over to your house. or just go to a movie. just have fun.
-When your out on a date let him be the one to make the move.....he and you will be comfortable!

Answer 9

Simple, you CAN NOT make someone like you. If he liked you alot, he would have let you know. Not just by talking to you on the phone. MOVE on!

Answer 10

well at first some guys are very shy to tell girls that they like them, i want you to call him and tell him how you feel, you might be lucky enough he told you that he like you but he did not know how to tell you