Girls please Help! There's a girl at school that I really like. But I don't know how I should ask her out.

Question

If you're a girl, then please give me a list showing what girls like about a guy. There's a girl at school who I really like, but I don't really know how to woo her. Thanks for the help.

Answer 1

*personality
-are you nice?
-are you caring?

*looks
-cuteness
-hotness
-body type

*attitude
-how do you talk?
-manners

*other
-are you smart?
-are you athletic?

I got the fallowing from http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-a-Girl-Out

1. Make sure that the girl is a girl you honestly feel for, not just a crush, heartbreaking a girl means they might encourage other girls not to go out with you.
2. Get to know her well. Find out about the activities and hobbies she likes, but always be mindful. The more you know about her interests, the more things you will have to talk about.
3. Approach the girl you like. Try to dress fairly decent, but don't overdo it. For example, if you're a T-shirt and jeans person, wear that. Do not show up with button-ups and ties, because you want her to like you for you, and you don't want to give her any false ideas.Look somewhat decent showing your trying.
4. Greet her in whatever fashion you normally would, but remember, being overly cordial or more relaxed than she knows you to be can reveal to her you are trying too hard and therefore not confident with being yourself, which will mirror that same anxiety within her, ruining your chances. In other words, be yourself. The greeting is what sets the precedent for who you are. If the greeting creates an odd situation where there is a bit of personality clash, it can ruin your entire chance. Traditionally, following the greeting is the conversation. Reiterating from before, its important to be yourself, so talk about subjects that you are interested in, and give responses to how you genuinally feel. Honesty is much, much more than just telling the truth, its about showing people you live a life other than theirs and have sovereign ideas, thoughts and feelings.
5. Gauge her interest. Take notice of eye contact, smiling, laughter, and enthusiasm in her responses. Learn to read women's body language.
6. Ease into your invitation. After you have been talking for awhile, and its obvious that both of you "click", invite her to be involved with you in an activity. Almost any activity is perfectly suitable. Mundane activities like grocery shopping or more exhilarating ones like snowboarding are great ways for her to get to know you, although inviting her for having coffee at a Cafe, or even a drink at a bar are not only great ideas, but traditional as well. After you and her have had the opportunity to "feel" each other out, find a time in the conversation where it would be appropriate to ask her out. The way you would ask her is quite simple in fact. An example would be: "Hey I'm going/doing ACTIVITY this weekend. How would you like to tag along? I promise it'll be more interesting than whatever you had planned." Say this with a small smile, teasingly. Do NOT use cheesy pickup lines, as they are not you. The example doesn't have to be followed verbatim, you can ask it in whatever way you feel is comfortable, but the important part is that you make a time to see her, and ask if she wants to come with you.
7. Spend time with her and a group of other people (not a one-on-one date). This will make her feel more comfortable as it's not as intense as being out as a couple.
8. Keep in mind that all women are looking for different things in men, and not every women will be compatible with you. If she's not interested, this doesn't mean you aren't good enough, it just means your personality is not compatible with hers, so "try, try again".

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Hope that helped!!

Answer 2

No no no. She'll either like you or she won't. You can spend a lot of time trying to figure out what girls like in guys. But it'll take just that, a lot of time. In the mean time just start talking to her about something and say ''hey, do you wanna go see ''insert movie name here'' this weekend, i've heard it's pretty good. Buy a big drink and popcorn. But arrange to hang out with her for a little before the movie, she can't get to know you in the cinema, and who wants to sit beside someone in the dark they don't really know and share popcorn and a drink?

Answer 3

have you ever talked to her before?
if you never did, you should.
going up there and just ask her out will definitely freak her out.
*it really depends, if that girl is the 'fiery' type, you might just wanna freak her out... they like it
if you are already a friend of hers, i don't' suggest hinting... it's pretty disgusting, even girls know that only horny old guys do that.(no offense, grandpa)
if she's a friend, stare at her a lot more than a person usually should and she'll probably notice a bit, and if she resists(start ignoring you) you know you should back off.
but if you really really like her after she ignores you, ask her out directly... and give up if she refuses.
if she's not yet a friend, start from simply saying "hi" ...
she might be surprised at first but if she's nice she'll say 'hi' back. If she just stares at you and look 'down' on ya, boy, i wouldn't consider going out with such a girl.

Answer 4

Well I personally like funny laid back guys who don't make me or the situation feel uptight, but other women have other opinions. If it were me I would be most impressed if you asked me out face to face (try to make it sound as casual as possible) or pass a note to one of her friends and tell them to give it to her or you could do it all sneaky like and have one of your friends see if she might be interested in you by having them go over to her group of friends and asking some questions and then when you have the Green light go for it then? I hope that helps but like I said I'm not every other women so I can't really tell you what she may like. Good luck!!!

Answer 5

Ask her out in person! That's the best way because it shows you're confident. The second best way would be over the phone. Whatever you do, do not do it online. It's not very personal and sometimes girls think it's a joke.

Answer 6

in terms of what i like about a guy is:
1. he's funny
2. he doesn't try so hard to get your attentionthat is anoying
3. He's just kinda like a guy i'd hang out with and be friends with.
In terms of what you should do, ask a friend that you know won't laugh at you to help you or just ask her if she want to hang out or play a sport sometime after school, its not a date but everything starts somewhere right?

Answer 7

I like when a guy asks me out himself. I dont like it when they have someone do it for them. If it makes you nervous to talk to her, write her a note. But be honest with her. Dont try and change to be everything she likes becuase that takes the fun out of really getting to know someone. A guy in my geometry class asked me out and I didnt know if my parents would let me so I said we could just be friends. And now I wish I said yes, so give her a little time to answer you..or tell her to think about it first,

Answer 8

Don't change who you are for anyone unless it's a bad quality you dislike about yourself! Make yourself available to this girl. Put the vibe out that you like her by offering to carry her books, talking with her between classes and ask her if she's dating anyone. Girls like guys who are assertive and thoughtful.

Answer 9

You need to be confident so I'd recommend you try to make eye contact and flash her a smile when she notices you. If you get a positive vibe then you know she's into you. After that she'll just be waiting for you to approach her.

p.s. don't send a friend, thats a big turn-off. it shows a lack of confidence.

Answer 10

Girls love attention, and made to feel special.....show her that you like her, before telling her and it will be all the more special when you make it official. If you don't feel comfortable telling her in person, than write her a note....then you will be able to express yourself without feeling too shy....Good luck sweetie...hope this helped you out!