When you are in that "love bliss", do you notice strangers smiling at you and (almost) flirting with you? (more than normal)?
(It's a theory/hypothesis of mine, but I need to know your input before I consider including it in my next book. -- Thanks)
2007-11-06 09:26:25 · 10 answers · asked by Diana Enright 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Dear (((Moon))),
Me too, I would give you a thumbs up, except at level 1, I don't have the authority to give thumbs ups.
So here is a hug from Carolyn and Me:
(((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))) ((((Moon))))
2007-11-06 09:32:50 · update #1
Dear "Nina" = Good point. Well, I call that "deep love bliss" (When we are rather unaware of anyone but the "one and only" -- Thanks for that thought.
2007-11-06 09:35:02 · update #2
Dear Barbara - lol - we both referred to it as "deep" -- Thanks pal. --- chagrin
2007-11-06 09:38:13 · update #3
Hello,
Yes, this phenomena I have observed along with others over the years. When you are single, desperate and looking for a partner you seem to have a big L for loser branded on your forehead and more often than not you get very little, no attention or down right rejection. When you do have a girlfriend or permanent mate then so many temptations come out of the woodwork and flirt or try hitting on you. It never fails to happen this way! Perhaps a committed person has more of an aura of self - confidence and indifference to these others so for some reason they are more up to the challenge of turning that attention around.
Cheers,
Michael Kelly
2007-11-06 10:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Michael Kelly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't notice it, but my husband seems to.
Of course, when I'm in that love bliss stage, people lose gender to me. They cease to be men or women, they cease to be attractive or particularly appealing, and become just people in an endless sea of faces. None making an impression or leaving me with any sense of "wow, he's really cute" or anything like that.
2007-11-06 17:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by lupinesidhe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. On those days, we connect, and I am sure the energy between us can be felt and even seen by some. Outsiders of course become attracted to that energy...they want a taste of it!
2007-11-06 17:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by MOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I firmly believe that happiness and joy can be seen in the eyes and in a smile by others. They are contagious and free for the giving. It reminds me of one of my favorite quotes...
"A candle loses nothing of its light by lighting another candle." James Keller
2007-11-06 17:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birds of a feather flock together, and misery loves company.
When I'm feeling down, the last thing I want is some happy-go-lucky jackass rubbing it in how much better he has it than I do.
2007-11-06 17:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I don't notice.. when I'm that deep in I rarely pay attention to the people around me because my attentions arew elsewhere :-)
2007-11-06 17:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by genaddt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My spouse and I are muslim. I find on these days that people generally give us dirty looks like "how dare you two look happy, youre supposed to be bloodthirsty, angry heathens hell bent on converting the world". We generally just ignore people. I dont like to let people's negativity bring me down.
Good luck on your book
2007-11-06 17:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nunya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL. I am confident that if I am "IN BLISS" I do not see anyone else ; )
My answer is no.
2007-11-06 17:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nina, BaC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smiles yes, flirting no, asking how long we have been together yes, flirting no, what keeps the fire lit yes, flirting no!
good luck with your book! (flirting no!!! :) )
2007-11-06 17:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by meister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a mate, but it's true that happiness attracts happiness :)
((((((Wayne & Carolyn))))))
2007-11-06 17:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by Moon :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋