I am so annoyed with brokedown, desperate girls trying to steal my man. My boyfriend now is not interested in any of these hookers however in the past I got burned twice. Are you jealous of the girl because she has a man and you don't? Is there something else going on except you being greedy or need attention?
2007-11-06 08:23:13 · 41 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its funny how some of the responders (especially the males and the bitter females) answer this question. They either respond as if they know who you are or don;t bother trying to get more facts before spewing. Here they are: I am a very secure person. I don't obsess about other girls. In truth, I obsess about myself toomuch. I happen to be popular and good looking and so my boyfriends are too. Thus, we might get more attention than normal. Also, my current boyfriend and I have a great relationship whereas the previous boyfriends were potentially ok. He gives me attention I need just as I give him the attention he needs and more! What I saw as a pattern in the past was these whores flagrantly throwing themselves at my "Man" and I couldn't understand why they wouldn't go after all the available, single men immediately around them!
2007-11-06 08:39:33 · update #1
I get the same problem, I think it's because some girls jut find men more attractive when they have a girlfriend. These girls are the kind who base all their self-worth on how attractive they are to guys, so when they see a man lavishing attention on his girlfriend, they think that if they can get his eyes to wander over in their direction, it means they are worth something. Basically they are just sad and insecure. When girls are after my bf, he and I talk about it and discuss how he can politely tell them to leave him alone. It's much better coming from him than from you, because those sorts of girls usually se a 'back off' from the girlfriend as a challenge or something stupidd. But if your boyfriend says, hey, i love my girlfriend, sorry but can you stop all this stuff, then they'remore likely to get embarrassed and go try to get their ego fix elsewhere.
I also agree that a boyfriend can't be 'stolen' he will leave of his own volition, but I do still think it is wrong and inappropriate for anyone to pursue somebody who is in a relationship. If the guy goes with you, then it proves he's not worth going with, and if he doesn't because he is decent and loves his girlfriend, then you are just embarrassing yourself and causing irritation and a nuisance for the man and his girlfriend. He might be too polite and not sure what to say to you to get you to back off, and the girlfriend might naturally feel threatened, both things are not nice to make anyone feel. So I think all the people saying 'don't blame the girls' aren't really thinking about how inappropriate,selfish and insensitive it is to try to get somebody to cheat on or leave their partner.
2007-11-06 08:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Katrina W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You question brings up a number of interesting issues. But the most important thing you need to decide and determine is that you have a relationship and that you are going to make it work. Before I even answer the question, just make sure you dont let you "getting burnt twice," get in the way of what you and your man have. You need to trust him, he will appreciate that and that will cement your relationship and make it less difficult for the other hookers to get in the way.
Girls tend to like a man in a relationship, one will never really know why and it is one of those phenomenons we will never understand. Some women are bitches, some women want the attention, and others want to do it for the thrill of eating forbidden fruit, and yes some women simply want attention. But dont let that bother you, focus on keeping your relationship strong and fresh and on you developing trust between you and your man. Also, since the competition is on, try add some new and exciting stuff in your relationship.
All the best!
2007-11-06 08:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Hephzibah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man stealer. Woman-to-woman, heres a tip. Men are not property to be stolen, as neither are women. Dont worry about the woman or girl flirting and carrying on in front of your boyfriend. Watch him, to see how he responds, reacts, or rejects. He is the one that makes the decision to the offers. He is not a house you can put a security alarm on or ger a guard dog for. Focus more on your relationship, and getting to know one another.
2007-11-06 08:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysloved4ever 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there are man-stealers, your men are the ones that stray. You need to take care of your man but first of all you have to get yourself the trustworthy, caring guys that will have an eye for you and posess self-control. I hardly blame the women if the man is the one who chases them down.
2007-11-06 08:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by fine00 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a) i highly doubt your man is as popular w/ the ladies as you imagine and b) girls are attracted to men w/ women becasue that is a sign they can handle commited relationships and that, hey, someone else wants them, so they must not be all that bad.
Plus, by asking this question, you seem to be the paranoid type that would change who you are to make your boyfriend like you more and keep his eye from wandering . . if he isnt paying any attention to the chicks hitting on him why do you care? You know who he comes home to at night . . or do you . . .
2007-11-06 08:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man stealers steal man
2016-02-03 03:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in a mature, stable relationship you should not worry.
Is your guy playing games with you and keeping the available sign up with you not knowing it? I hope not you sound like a really devoted girl.
Just be as sweet and smart as you can and
Good Luck,
:)
2007-11-06 08:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Stacie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your position ,any of this girs will feel thesame as
you,but , if you look great as your boyfriend look,and girls try to take attention from you boyfriend, such a girls thay are cheap for me,
BUT,If your boyfriend look alot better than you,then sorry, you will have the girs eyes every time.
2007-11-06 08:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a man if it were me If my girlfriend displayed alot of insecurity and jealousy about other women that's precisely what would drive me away. Be secure in yourself and just appreciate what you have with him. If that's not enough for him then honestly he would have gone to the other girl anyways and it was not meant to be. Best of luck.
2007-11-06 08:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by psxsage2 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, i guess you just have to sow trust & good feelings all the time into your relationship... then it will grow into a strong plant which can withstand all kinds of weather - including girls who are trying to steal him..
Also, first learn to trust in yourself... that he loves you for who you are....
2007-11-06 08:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋