2007-11-06 07:49:07 · 32 answers · asked by mirrorbee 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't surrender into that, oh so, still of the night willingly - give Nature a piece of your mind. ... If NOT, guess who'll be "waiting for YOU" at the end of the road; is this the closure you've been hoping for?
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2007-11-06 10:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you know it is the end of the road then just let go. Transition time. Move on to something new.
2007-11-06 08:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by enigma 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to struggle with it for a while, because your brain has triggers or road maps of memory where you still think the person you were with should be giving you stimulation or feed back.
Until the brain re configures its neurons or road maps, the feelings begin to wane and then you can move on. Its a process... Just don't feed the energy and keep it going longer than it should or you are depriving yourself of where you should be or could become.
2007-11-06 07:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
when its the end just remember all the good thats happened if any then look at all the bad and beleive that it will get better.
The road never ends it just changes direction
2007-11-06 10:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Choose ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drive in a different direction.
Ok seriously. Learn to love yourself first and you wont feel so bad that it is over. Everyone has had a relationship they knew wouldn't work and suddenly when it is really over they might remember one or two good times and not the many bad times or incompatibility issues.
You are fine until the person starts dating someone else or starts 'having fun' without you.
You start to feel insecure about your self and ask questions like 'What is wrong with me?' , or 'He/she can't have fun with me, so I am no fun?' or 'Am I not beautiful enough for him/her?' etc etc.
If you loved yourself first you would rejoice that it is over and happy if your ex finds happiness.
Good Luck and give yourself a hug, then drive off into the sunset, it will get better with time.
2007-11-06 07:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by The Mentor 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Whew... I feel ya! Going through it right now.
You just have to keep in mind that you're making the right choice. It WILL be what's best for the both of you in the end... might not seem like it now but you are doing this to find a happier tomorrow and it will come... you just need to let yourself heal right now.
Stay strong and keep your head up.
2007-11-06 07:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Angie_B3 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy to do, but some how we pick ourselves up and dust ourselves off and realize that it is just time to let go. To be honest, I don't think we truely let go all together, because we will still always have the memories for years to come. I think the hard part is just not hanging onto what is gone.
2007-11-06 07:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Soda 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I always viewed my relationships like a stand-up comedian on stage -- always leave 'em happy (even if it feels like it's too early to leave)! Therefore I can honestly say that each one of my ended relationships still view me as a friend.
Thankfully my dating days were over 15 years ago when I met and married Mr. Right!
2007-11-06 07:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Change lanes then coast gently round the roundabout until you find a new and safer route then let go and leave the dismal past behind you where it belongs, bless you.
2007-11-06 08:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being aware of how our emotions, and especially our fears, drive our behavior can help us to make better decisions in life. You could curse and complain about your feebleness, or you can get busy and make yourself stronger. You could seethe with resentment about the past, or you can make the choice to let go and move forward
2007-11-06 07:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by southern_gal_wow 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋