So, I went out with this girl a few times and had a great time. I really like her personality (she asked me out), and her sense of style. However, just last week just in a matter of two days everything suddenly changed. I spoke to her midweek and asked her out to this show. Her response was that she would love to go see it. However, when I tried to follow up with her later with timing and her schedule, I got no response. About two days later, I got an e-mail response that she is going through some personal issues and is really busy the next couple of weeks. She said that I should see it. She also said that she will let me know when things get smoother. To a certain extent, i can understand her work schedule as it is very demanding. So, I don't know what to do. Any help and insight would be much appreciated. Thanks!
2007-11-06 07:36:28 · 7 answers · asked by Icmn698 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there anyway to find out if she doesn't like me or is actually busy with work? Also, what is the best way to build trust with her? Right now, I want to give her time. But, I would like stay friends with her, and hopefully more...
2007-11-07 16:01:12 · update #1
If she cannot give you reasonable communication for why she broke the date..... do not wait! you'll just be disappointed again when she breaks another one. If she liked you, she would have talked to you sooner and not put you off.
2007-11-06 07:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her give her the time unless you have found out it was a ruse. Things can change but do not jump to conclusion. I recently went through a similar situation and the stinking think played havoc on my mind. In the end I have now continued on with that realtionship and it is good. SO make sure you know what is happening before you worry to much. You may be right but just as easily be wrong. It is a chance you have to take. Just do not put your life on hold.
2007-11-06 07:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Brad H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is going through some stuff and she thinks that you will not understand and she wants to have a clear head when she goes out with you . Maybe she wants all the stuff behind her so she can concentrate on you and having a good time . so give her some time and call her every once and a while and let her know that you are still around and still interested in her . good luck and god bless.
2007-11-06 07:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she s not that interested in you
trust me leave it alone
for a girl to all of a sudden tell u she s busy
when girls are great at scheduling there calendar
she wants space and distance
so if i was u try to act all non chalant about it
and act like u dont like
and if she approaches u tell her
ur beautiful and all but u r not my type
she will be on u kid
trust me girls do this all the time
2007-11-06 07:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you guys really aren't dating, just have other friends to go out with so you won't be waiting for someone who may never come back. And if or when she comes back continue being her friend.
2007-11-06 07:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is back with her ex! Leave her alone
2007-11-06 07:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by kalukakalaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life.......If she comes back, fine.if not enjoy the happy times you had together,,,,,,,,,,,don't wait..........it does no good...life is way too short.........
2007-11-06 07:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by richard t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋