if someone got drunk at the weekends and hit you only because of the drink but begged you to stay with them
2007-11-06 07:36:05 · 20 answers · asked by txx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he a good person when not drinking its happened a few times but not 4 a long time he dont drink that much now but wants to start going out again on a sat on the town thats when he drinks a lot
2007-11-06 07:43:33 · update #1
i live on my own kicked him out because of it but still see him as we have a kid
2007-11-06 07:49:45 · update #2
Please, please please do not make excuse for him. R U not precious enough not to be used as a punching bag. Having a child/children together does not mean you can be used and abuse. Allow them both to have full access but do not rekindle any old spark. You will regret it.
2007-11-06 08:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by enigma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are the steps you need to take:
1. Forgive him.
2. Forgive yourself for having a child with a fool.
3. Move OUT. NOW.
4. Never do this AGAIN.
5. Repeat step 2.
6. Walk in victory, and be not entangled again with a yoke of bondage.
2007-11-07 14:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I would not forgive being hit. That kind of thing usually happens again if it happens once and only gets worse with time. I am a forgiving person, but without anger management counseling, how is that kind of thing for sure not going to happen again?
2007-11-06 15:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter if he as been drinking or not, that's no excuse for hitting a woman. once maybe but any more then that big no no. my mother-in-law's partner is the same and as reported him, i think you should do the same or tell him that you will if he hits you or the child
2007-11-06 16:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Steven J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way, at the moment the drink is the excuse , wont be long before he doesent need an excuse, or a drink, that just shows you the real person.
2007-11-06 15:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lorraine P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of them, someone who thinks they can do something like that whilst drunk and get away with an "I'm sorry" will do it again. I watched my mother get beaten for years as a child, no one has that right
2007-11-06 15:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by ladysarahmay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only u can decide tat u probally dont want to hear it but um... well is it the first time alchol has been a problem within your relationship haave you spoken about it since the 'accident' deos he understand how serious???
2007-11-06 15:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO.
You must NEVER ever accept behaviour like that. If its happened once, it will happen again.
You must NOT forgirve this person.
Seriously. Stand your ground and walk away.
2007-11-06 15:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by dolly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its a good idea for you to stay with him, if hes done it more than once he will do it again and again,
2007-11-06 15:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the real question is do u love him and does he love u truthfully??
if he was messing round then leave it as u can find sum1 betta!!
hoped i helped
2007-11-06 15:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by munchizzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋