why does she feel the need to make mean comments to me?

Question

i have been dating this girl for about a month and she is always kidding around about things...calling me names, and stuff like that. i call her names back because she calls me names...sometimes she crosses the line though saying things like " there are so many guys here if i were single it would be great" and " i should have made my ex my first he has a 9 inch d**k." and then when i tell her i dont like her saying stuff like that to me..she gets all defensive and says i shouldent feel the way i do and that im over- reacting about it...i dont get it!!!! , its not even the stuff she said really, its the fact that when i told her i diddnt appreciate her saying that stuff she acted as if she hadent done anything wrong...it took an hour just to make her say she would try not to say stuff like that anymore.....im confused she says shes falling in love so why does she feel the need to say stuff like that ,and kid around all the time callin me names and stuff?

Answer 1

That's just her personality and sense of humor. She probably is falling in love with you, and this is just a bad habit she has picked up from her parents, siblings, friends, or someone she has spent a lot of time around--kind of like smoking or swearing. You can "train" her to loose this habit, but it will take a lot of work and time, and quite frankly I don't think you should have to do it. There are plenty of other great girls out there who will treat you right.

Answer 2

One the fact that you guys are young..i would know im a teenager too. And also the fact that maybe she doesnt know how to handle her feelings towards you..i use to do that when i was like 13 pick on the guy who was my bf at the time and say stuff like that. IDK it just comes out she prob doesn't mean it..or she just wants to make you jealous because jealousy makes her think thats a form of caring. Maybe you should tell her a lot more that shes the special girl for you..and sweet stuff like that
But if it continues neway..i would dump her..she is obviously to immature

Answer 3

it sounds like she's not even in love with u or even love u at all I think the reason she is calling u names and all the other stuff she does to u is b/c I think she wants u to dump her so she can be single I mean that's what she wants if not she wouldn't be talking about it right so tell her to stop calling u names if not u will dump her and move on to someone else that don't call u names

Answer 4

The girl is an obvious tramp. No class. No manners. You really want to spend time with a girl like that?

She's "falling in love" with you? C'mon, gimme a break...more like she wants to fall into the sack with you...if that's what you want - but something tells me you won't like yourself very much if you do and all of a sudden, get an STD.

Talk about slutty behavior...Geez!

Sincerely,

Grace

Answer 5

I am sorry if you like her, but she sounds lke a b*tch. Honostly, i would tell her, either calm down on the name calling, or look for a guy who wants to put up with your $h1t. And about love. She is starting to form feelings for you, not love. Love takes longer to form. Plus, if you love someone, it means you will try to my them feel good about themself, not drag you down.

Answer 6

This girl is belittling you, telling you things like that. She wants to put you down. This is not love. I would consider leaving her, for she is not good for you.

Answer 7

drop her immediately. you don't need the pain and stress in your life. she sounds like a loser with a dirty mouth.

Answer 8

the two individuals involved in the realtionship are immature period.

Answer 9

If you can't respect her, how can you love her?

Dump time.


LD