My wife was invited to eat lunch by an old friend (male) she use to party with all the time. He was actually the guy she was out partying with when I met her. Anyway... she told me about it approx. 2 weeks ago and now they are going 2morrow. She invited me 2 go but I will b working and would feel out of place anyhow. I still dont like the idea but should I just accept it or am I just overly paranoid about the enitire thing. Answers please
2007-11-06 07:27:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She invited you and that should tell you all you need to know.
Worst case scenario is that she will run off with the guy but if shes that weak minded she isnt much of a catch anyway.
I would let it go and tell her to have a nice lunch.
2007-11-06 07:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you're being paranoid. You are the winner. She had the chance to have him. Instead, she chose to meet you at the party. She chose to date you after that. And most importantly, she chose to marry you. If someone is cheating, they're not going to tell you who they are seeing or invite you along. I'm sure this is innocent and you have nothing to worry about.
2007-11-06 15:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by jtbrick1208 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason for you to be paranoid. She was open with you about the whole situation. She even invited you. It's because she trusts you and wants you to trust her.
2007-11-06 15:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not enough details. However if she invited you maybe there is nothing to it. It's okay to be a little jealous..it keeps relationships a float.
2007-11-06 15:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by tinc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being paranoid. Get a grip and trust your wife. She told you about it because she has nothing to hide.
2007-11-06 15:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by diva9047 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was honest enough to tell you about it, she isnt hiding it from you. Not to mention that she asked you to go with her.... I think you are just being paranoid.
2007-11-06 15:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by ******101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be pissed. go out with one of your old girl friends & see what she says.
2007-11-06 15:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would accept it and i owuld ask her how it went
2007-11-06 15:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by ~*.`Lil Sweety`.*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋