Let's say you are just walking along the street, or in a grocery store, or bookstore, or at a bus stop, etc... and some random guy comes up to you and says "Hi, I think you are very attractive. Would you like to go out for coffee or lunch sometime?"
How would you react?
2007-11-06 07:08:19 · 28 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be completely flattered, however I would have to let him know I appreciate the offer, but I am in a relationship. Thank you anyways
2007-11-06 07:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think you were a little pushy unless we'd seen each other several times like we took the same train or bus. But then again...the part about I think you're attractive sounds too much like a line. How about just "hi..." and start a conversation that way. Talk to her like a person not some arm candy. And I don't like that approach too because I'd wonder how easy it was for you to walk up to any pretty woman and ask her out. I'd think you did it all the time and that would turn me off. Being a little coy or shy is nice sometimes...
2007-11-06 15:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by nonameblonde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(while freaking out inside) "No, sorry I can't. I promised to bathe my sister's pet whale." (runs off in the opposite direction like a crazy woman.)
It's too aggressive to be so foward, its a complete stranger talking to you! AHHHH!!!
If there was a stranger, then perhaps trying to make small talk, though I'd be kinda creeped at that. Though I can see talking about books, like mentioning a favorite book and suggesting it. But still, its a complete stranger!
2007-11-06 15:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Papagena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was single, and I found him at all attractive, I'd give him my number and make plans when he called. If he had something about him I thought was a turn off, I'd ask for his number and then never call.
2007-11-06 15:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I would probablly tell him that I would like to get to know him a bit more before we went out and I would give him my phone number so that we could talk some.
2007-11-06 15:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by mardaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy and my free time the specific day but he would have a lot of chances just because he is brave and spontaneous.
2007-11-06 15:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he looks like. Sounds shallow, but it's all I have to go on. But I'd probably go, to see what he's like. It could be a relationship, or a friendship. Or chaos.
You just never know until you try.
2007-11-06 15:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by This Is Radio Clash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say thank you, but I don't know anything about you. Want to talk first? I know those things don't happen to a girl like me, so yeah. Nice thought though.
2007-11-06 15:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by just another girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had a total stranger say that to me...at Starbucks. Because I was so impressed with his boldness, I had dinner with him the same week. It was fun.
2007-11-06 15:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if the guy seems creepy. He would have to be attractive and a gentleman.
2007-11-06 15:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋