my mans ex lives two doors away from me, when she found out we were dating, she went crazy, when he came to see me she ran out of her house, threw a glass plate at him slapped him in the face twice and then came at me, he cut her off, ever since then it has been nonstop harassment by her and her 18 yr old, 12 yr old and her friend law enforcement cant help, legal aid cant help she even filed false charges against him, i cannot even go outside and be called names, by her and her kids, the sheriffs told me the best thing is to move, the landlord has threatened her with eviction, she still does it. what can we do i am not hiding in the apt, we tried that, we ignore her and it just gets worse. i am really getting frustrated, she even tried to put sugar in his tank, and stole his gas cap, we did not see her nothing was done. she is the only one who carries a grudge and her daughter. What can we do, i have three children who live with me, they donot have to live like this. help
2007-11-06 05:52:00 · 10 answers · asked by Kathy D 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
What do you mean law enforcment can't help? If she is threatening you then she can get in trouble for that. You need to put a restraining order on her and so does he. Then she has no choice but to stay away. And when she threw the plate at him he should have called the police right then and there. And everytime she does something that you actually saw you need to report it because that shows she is doing it. If you keep letting her do it and don't file complaints when you finally do call the cops they are going to ask why you never did any other time. But get a restraining order against her.
2007-11-06 12:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by jennie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with a woman who has mental health issues. If you have enough harassment you can always file for a restraining order but that will be difficult since she lives so close to you.. I would suggest that you move so that you can get peace in your life.
2007-11-06 06:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Diane M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a police report
apply for a restraining order
or
move
2007-11-06 06:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jan Luv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need prooof of it so get some cheap security cams hooked on your property only looking only into your own driveway or door way.
But that officer is right, the only thing you can do is move away and Im surprised why he hasnt
2007-11-06 06:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a camera if she's doing sh*t like putting sugar in your gas tanks... I don't understand why you can't get a restraining order though>?
2007-11-06 06:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE IS FILING FALSE CHARGES AGAINST HIM, TAKE IT TO THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY AND FILE A CHARGE AGAINST HER FOR LYING ON A DOCUMENT TO THE COURTS. FILING A FALSE STATEMENT.
THE HARASSMENT IS CONTAINED BY A RESTRAINING ORDER AND A PROTECTION ORDER AGAINST HER AND HER KIDS.
THERE IS AN ABATEMENT LAW AGAINST CURSING IN PUBLIC AND BEING A MENTAL CASE WHICH IS WHAT SHE SEEMS TO BE. FILE A CHARGE WHEN AT COURT FOR MENTAL HEALTH TO EVALUATE HER AS AN UNFIT MOTHER. THAT SHOULD HOLD HER TONGUE FROM WAGGING.
2007-11-06 06:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean L.E. can't help? When she came running out of the house throwing glass plates, you should have called the cops.
2007-11-06 06:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by jennyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear dear,
this is dangerous and unfair for your kids to live like this!
I think that you have to move, and move far...
It sounds like she lives to make your lives living hell.
She is consumed with anger and lives for revenge.
See Fatal Attraction movie and decide quick!
I wish you all well.
Puka
2007-11-06 06:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move.
Especially if you have children.
Since he got you into this mess, have him pay for the deposit on your new apartment and your moving expenses.
2007-11-06 05:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by CGIV76 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two words: RESTRAINING ORDER!
2007-11-06 05:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Steven C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋