my dad died when i was 4 months old a pertunity test was never done but the social security has on file that my dad was on my record as my dad for 3 days which means i never got and ss... no big deal my mom did awesome job with out it anyways so i talked to my step grandma and back when they asked them if he should be put on they said yes which means 3 days later my real grandma called and told them no and i met my dads family when i was 13 because my dads mom was very mean to my mom and denied i was her (she still does) granddaughter do i have the right to be mad and if so should i confront her or just ignore her like i have since the day i met her
2007-11-06 04:41:42 · 5 answers · asked by Miranda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't need a mean, decietful, selfish old granny in your life!
SHE, however, is missing out on a grandchild.
If it makes you fel better, tell her you are old enough to realise that you are better off without a bitter gran poisoning your happy family life and as such are calling it quits on her, and would just like to be clear on that point.
2007-11-06 05:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by donedeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for a relationship with your grandmother (or dad's mom) ? It seems like there would be a problem developing one with her since she is denying you. You have a right to feel what you are feeling. You dont' deserve to be denied by her just because she and your mother don't get along. I'm sure you are angry and hurt. If that woman doesn't want you in her life for whatever reason it would be best just to let her be. Do you still talk with your step-grandma ? If you are looking for a relationship with an older person and you get along with her then it might be a good idea to talk to her when you feel angry about things between your real grandma and you.
2007-11-06 12:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by la_canada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can got on without her (and I think you should be just fine) then ignore her sorry ***. If you need her for something, family-wise or whatever, be polite and no more. You shouldn't waste your precious time sidling up to a woman who (sounds like) hates your mom and you.
2007-11-06 12:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Missy the Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. You don't really know the truth, and it doesn't matter anyway.
2007-11-06 12:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue ignoring her. I mean you have been dong well without her this far.
2007-11-06 12:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋