what would you do if your teenager raised his hand to hit you?what if he did hit you?

Question

just for something as simple as asking him/her to clean their roomor telling them to feed their pet.

Answer 1

I have one of those kids. I have had 3 spine surgeries and am not able to fight back. I told his father on him and he took care of it for me. My other 2 children has told him that if he ever raises his fist to me again that they will personally beat the heck out of him. So far between my husband and other kids, he has not tried anymore. My husband also made him move out of the house and live on his own. If he wants to abuse then he needs to go to counseling or jail. This type of behavior is not normal. I will not stand for it and neither should you. Call your advocate place for teens and report it to a counselor. They will come and talk to him/her. If you don't take control of him now, then he will take control over you and you will be the one in the hospital or dead. Move him out or get him help... Best of luck. I am so sorry you are going through this. I know how it makes you feel. I know how hard it is also to report your own child. We have to do things sometimes when we don't want to for our safety and our children's future. Just think about it and react now.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I'd have to whoop the tar out of him. Not to mention, his father getting a hold of him. -Lets just say that would be the last time he would get the notion.
My mom has always said, "I brought you into this world, and I'm the one to take you out." She didn't play.
That's why I am a firm believer in "penetrating all the layers" while they are little so that they will know better.
If you don't while they are young, they will get out of control as they get older.

In the Bible, it says; Proverbs 23 (NIV)

13 Do not withhold discipline from a child;
if you punish him with the rod, he will not die.

14 Punish him with the rod
and save his soul from death. [c]

15 My son, if your heart is wise,
then my heart will be glad;

16 my inmost being will rejoice
when your lips speak what is right.

One of : The Ten Commandments, says;

To Honor thy mother and thy father.

It isn't good for a child to disrespect his parents. I have also heard that "A family Who Prays Together, Stays Together."

-God Bless.

Answer 4

You cannot be friends with your kids... you have to be the parent, which means you have to be the authority figure. You can be his best ally, but not his friend.

You only have "so long" to get things under control, and to teach the kid everything he needs to get along in the world... respect, responsibility, ethics, etc. You may have to slap his face or use a belt across his bottom to get the point across. You treat a spoiled brat accordingly.

Physical size is not carte blanche to beat the parents into submission. The minute a kid tries to bully the parent - - particularly in physical violence - - the parent needs to squash that rebellion FAST and HARD. If that means kicking the kid out of the house to bring him in line, fine. If it means taking away his favorite toys, fine. You are the authority figure.

As long as this kid is under your roof, he has to live with your rules. He has to go to school, do his homework, pick up after himself and do his chores, and he has to stay out of trouble. When he is old enough, he can get a job after school. That isn't asking a lot.

Answer 5

If they're in their teens, then they understand actions and consequences. With that being said; they would spend some time in Juvenile detention for a while to learn not to put your hands on anyone, unless it is in self defense. I say this because if you don't teach them this; society will. In the real world, if they puts their hands on the wrong person, your teenager may not live to learn from their mistake or may spend time in a more adult version of juvenile.

Answer 6

Well i would defend myself, then take call the cops on him so he knows there is a consequence for every action. He can not just think he can go about hitting people without some kind of action against him.

Answer 7

I dont know it hard to say children do anything thesse days. when i did this to my parents i ended up with a broken arm or leg and the emegancy room said how did this happed. my father would make some excuess like she triped and fell down stairs. another was she was cleaning guter and got her arm stuck and i pull it out. he had excuss for everything

Answer 8

I'd be on the web looking up miliary boot camp schools....if your teen thinks it's ok to strike a woman, chances are that he hasn't had a very good male role model to show him how to deal with his anger, frustrations, etc.....because a good manly role model would never strike a female, especially his MOM for crying out loud.

Of course, you have to wonder, what on earth could the Mom have done to push her child so far?

Answer 9

If your teenager did this to you then honey you have problems, If it were me i would woop his #$% but thats just my opinion, why dont you do what my father did to me when i did something worng he would take me to the local detention center for kids and say do you wanna stay here? buti never did but maybe you need to leave his #$% there. good Luck

Answer 10

I don't have kids but if I did and they hit me then I would probably knock the hell out of them. If they are big enough to place a hand on you then they are big enough to get their *** wooped!