Ok this is what happened, I was looking for my mom's camera, and so I looked in the den, and I see my 16 year old brotherlooking at ponography video(s)! He told me not to tell Mom or he'll hurt me (because he really can)! What should I or he do?
2007-11-06 03:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
a lot of boys that age (and younger) watch it so its no problem. think of it this way: if he caught YOU doing some thing that you REALLY didnt want your mom to see, would you want him to tell on you or just keep it your little secret...?
I hope you make the right choice... :)
2007-11-06 03:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 16 i think it's ok.
he's maybe a little young, but i'm SURE many guys have started looking at porn at 16.
i would say it's ok to keep it your little secret. eventually, you're going to want that older brother's help someday....and the more you rat on him now, the less he'll want to help you later on in life.
take care.
2007-11-06 11:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the situation alone! Hes a growing boy and this is totally normal for his age.
2007-11-06 11:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and tell them that he threatened you and you want protection from him.
If he is really violent when he doesn't get his way, you need to call the police or at least talk to the counselor at school.
2007-11-06 13:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just mind your own business honey, at 16 yrs. this is normal, it's just a video, it won't hurt him, and chances are your Mom already know's, no need to embarass him.
2007-11-06 11:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by okimreadynow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't say anything. Let him know he can trust you and your relationship will flurish.
2007-11-06 11:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋