it seems as though he's always putting her in front of me and i think that they r still have sex .everytime i'm with him it's like her name always comes up and i hat it so much.please tell me what to do
2007-11-06 02:50:35 · 16 answers · asked by sexytlj26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not ready to be in a relationship with someone who is a parent. Move on until you're mature enough to deal with that kind of relationship. Good luck. 2D
2007-11-06 02:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he isn't over her. When someone constantly talks about an ex, is always bringing up another person's name, the haven't gotten over that person. If he is still having sex with her, then it is time to end the relationship. I would ask him what the deal is, and I would ask him some really hard questions about her and what their relationship is. They share a child, they will forever be in each other's lives. There is nothing that you can do to change that. But you can try and find out what's going on with them. And if you don't like it, then you need to leave this man and find someone else.
And kids are not baggage! The relationship is, but children are not!
2007-11-06 02:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off the fact that he has a kid with this other woman means she is never going away. People who have kids together will always be connected no matter what kind of relation they have, whether it's hateful or not. You need to find out how they broke up and how long ago they broke up. cuz that is important. Then you need to start snooping to see if he really does have feelings for her still. If he still does, then I suggest you leave him. That is stress you can do without.
2007-11-06 03:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 18 and got a whole lot of things you could be doing better than dealing with real life issues such as these. You don't have any kids and you shouldn't have to be bothered with anyone else that dose. Especially at 18 ..now when you get to be 30 like me then you sometimes have to be understanding ...but YOU don't.....cut it lose!!!!!!
2007-11-06 03:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is always going to be a part of his life because they share a child so its normal for him to talk about her. This problem will never go away so you need to decide if this is what you want. And...if they are still having sex a #2 could be on its way soon. Your 18 dont tie yourself down!!!
2007-11-06 02:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by kimber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately when there is a child involved the ex is always gonna be in the picture. You are so young I think you should go your separate ways and look for a man without children, it's so much easier that way.
2007-11-06 02:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by scooter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i wouldnt have gotten in a relationship with a guy that already had a kid. Cause that means that that kids mom is gonna be coming around and making things harder for you and the guy. im not saying let the guy go but, make sure that he knows that you are getting really mad that it seems that he is not paying any attition to you
2007-11-06 02:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by -johnnymacsmoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's always going to be in the picture and also in your conversations with him. They have a bond together forever with their child being the link, so if it bothers you that much, it always will, unless you try not to let it bother you or learn to deal with it.
2007-11-06 02:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by PLEASURE pUPPY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why would you want a guy who has already had children?... second break up with him if he is always mentioning her then he still has feelings and he isn't worth your time anyway you are still young go out and find someone new
2007-11-06 02:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one.get over it. this is life .hes 23 and got a life.sooo.you need to move on find someone more your speed..
2007-11-06 03:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋