it's been a while since my gf left me and my daughter and even though I haven't gone out I feel it's time to start dating? wat should i do? I'm only 22yrs old?
2007-11-06 02:48:38 · 22 answers · asked by artistic side 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if your ready to start dating then start dating. Dont let anything hold you back. Im sorry your gflet you and your daugther.
2007-11-06 02:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow! This is tough with kids of any age, but especially with a baby and with you being so young as well! It's fine to get out of the house...and go on "dates"...but just don't start a "relationship" unless you TRULY know that what you had with the baby's mother is REALLY over. Another thing to remember before starting a relationship is that you and your baby are a package...a lot of people (girls and guys alike) don't want to be "tied down" at your age but you need to let them know that being involved with you will mean spending a lot of time at home watching movies and going to the park to play....but you are certainly entitle to getting a babysitter from time to time for some adult alone time! Just take it slow and remember that the baby is your first priority, and be responsible!
2007-11-06 02:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should act like a man. Type in full sentences, use proper grammar, and most importantly be a dad to your daughter.
One of the basic qualities of a real man is the ability to make decisions based on logic, not emotion. Your feelings aside, the best thing you can do is to raise a happy, confident daughter, not improve your social life. We don't need more children that seek out emotional attachment and belonging from their peers because they missed out on that from their parents. This is what leads to teenagers making babies. You want your daughter in the same position as you?
This is why the Asians have succeeded so well in America. The parents sacrificed everything so that their kids had a better life and a better future. How many young Asian kids do you see working at a Donut Store with their parents? That is because their parents sacrificed so that their kids could become doctors and lawyers, etc.
2007-11-06 03:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're still a young man. You need to get out, but you , also, have to think of the child. Consider getting a reputable babysitter. If you aren't going to make it an every night affair, that is. If you are in a well paying job, try a nanny. But you must, at all cost, spend quality time with your daughter.
2007-11-06 02:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by BillyB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel its time to start getting out again, you should go. Start by going out in a group with your friends. You will be a much better daddy to your little girl if you have some social life. Its time to move on with your life. Dont get serious too fast with another person but take your time and enjoy meeting lots of new people.
2007-11-06 02:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by Diane M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how long has it been? if its been over 6 months then id say its okay to start dating again, but regardless if you feel you need to start dating again then just try one date and see how it goes....I definately wouldnt try to rush into another long term relationship for a while because that would get hard on your daughter to get attatched to someone else and then it may not work out.....if you do start dating again I wouldnt let those people meet your daughter until youve dated that same person for a while just for her sake......but you do not have to sit at home and be miserable....go enjoy the dating world there is someone great out there who will love you and your daughter as much as you love them.......good luck
2007-11-06 02:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not too soon to start dating, you should get back on the horse, your gf left you, so I don't see why you shouldn't start again. I don't know how old your little girl is, but remember, she always comes first. So be careful when dating.
2007-11-06 02:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by RLJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it is time for you to get back into the dating scene then go back in slowly that way you can get used to dating again.sorry to hear that your girlfriend left you and your daughter.i would let the women you know ahead of time that you have a daughter that way , it will not be a suprise to them if it goes on to become a relationship.
2007-11-06 02:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by boyfriend's sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ever since I was married I feel I go out less besause he doesnt want to go out and I'm only 22 as well so I know how u feel but u have to think of the little girl and must treat her better SORRY THAT ur gf left u and ur baby but hope that ***** gets hers!
2007-11-06 05:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by missmelynda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not time to start dating again, but time to start going out again. You must have been hurt by your girlfriend leaving, so maybe its time to just go out and enjoy yourself a bit. You are far too young to be sitting at home every night, so go out and enjoy yourself and see who comes along.
2007-11-06 02:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something wrong with a woman who can leave her child.. you might need to get some professional help first before you start dating, to find out how to avoid this kind of woman in the future
2007-11-06 02:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋