What should we do about my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend?

Question

I am my BF's first real girlfriend, and we have been together for 2 years. Today, the girl that he gave his virginity up to (3 years ago) texted his phone asking to meet up with him "for old times sake".Their 10 day "relationship" started in high school when she walked up to him one day, sat in his lap, and told him she would have sex with him (she was known as the school sl*t). He had sex with her that day, and 4 days later (without ever once having a conversation with her) told her, "so I won't be coming around anymore". She hooked up with someone else the following week & they haven't spoken since. He told me that he just "wanted to get his virginity out of the way before college", and "didn't care who it was with". STUPID (I know), but what's done is done. He forwarded the voicemail to me and asked me what I wanted to do. My question is: How do we tell this girl off? She KNOWS my BF and I are together. Should he or I call her (what should we say) or ignore her?

Answer 1

IGNORE HER! Responding to her would only give her the attention that she is seeking...she doesn't care if it's positive or negative attention...as long as people respond to her! Just ignore her! If she keeps texting or calling him, then have her # blocked! She's not worthy of either of your time!! Give your boyfriend a big hug and kiss for being honest with you!

Answer 2

I don't know what to say. There are so many inconsistencies in your story I don't know what's true (if any of it). You said she texted him but later that he forwarded you the voicemail. You said they had a 10 day "relationship" but he had sex the day she sat in his lap and 4 days later he was done with her.

Answer 3

thats really odd. How did she get his number in the first place. I would just ignore really. For her being the school sl*% i wouldn't even really want to be by her these days. But then you probably feel like you need to tell this Bi%$# off too. I would. But i hope what every i put helps!!

Answer 4

He should be the one to tell her there's no chance for her. If you just ignore her, she may just think he's keeping her in the back of his mind for someone to fall back on. And if you are the one to contact her, she'll never believe he's not wanting to get back with her. So I'd trust him as far as telling her off. Just follow up and make sure it's done. Or be there near him when he does it.

Answer 5

the same thing happened with me and my bf except for he lost his virginity to me...
but i would just tell her leave him alone because we are happy and he isn't interested in having any contact with a girl that is basicly a hooker
and tell her to f off
if she doesn't listen then ignor her

Answer 6

He had sex wih her not you, it's up to him to choose between you or her, you need to standby and be quiet and observe so as
to know if he's on the level or not, do what
women are programed to do, listen while
he talks then make your decision . . .

having sex with her again ain't the issue, it's wheather or not he's hoping to have is cake and eat it to, her being the cake, and you being the to . . .

Answer 7

tell him to tell the ex that he's not interested.
he's fine where he stands and he feels no need for a **** buddy.

and if that doesnt work you can talk to her.
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that'll be the fun part.
tell her to **** off and stop contacting him, he's satisfied.

Answer 8

ignore her.i feel ur BF likes u.tell him 2 tell her that he's not interested in her

Answer 9

I think he should have handled it. He could have easily told her to get lost and you would've never known about it.

Answer 10

You dont get involved let him handle it. i think you should ignore her but also she might just want to see him. so im not sure.