is it because i am too old (35) and all the interesting men of right age are already married (or dead)?
is it because i am not at the right places at right times?
my understanding of "interesting" is unrealistic?
all of the above? something else? what is it?
sounding like a typical Brigit JOnes syndrome, i know, but really it does bother me (and some of my friends as well)
just to add some relevant info, i am at least 'slightly' above average in the departments of intelligence and attractiveness
2007-11-06 02:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by confusi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some have asked me to have greater understanding of 'interesting' for me.
... well i consider natural qualities like being unassuming and genuine are attractive (and rare) qualities
and being suave and having a gift for something is a bonus.
also i find it silly to use the word 'looking', sounds like you are looking for a pair of gloves.
and yes i am a reasonably good mixer
2007-11-06 17:09:56 · update #1
And it is because of being slightly over that you are finding it hard to find anyone interesting. Think about the kind of man you would like if you did have a choice and then search the appropriate places. If you'd like an athletic man then go shopping at sports shops or join a health spa etc, etc. Good luck though because it's usually when your not looking or when you least expect it you'll find him.
2007-11-06 02:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, you have lots on your strategies =P besides i'm going to in basic terms answer those with my own evaluations and reports: a million. If a guy is a gents to me I in no way think of he's appearing or is insincere. i might ask why i grew to become into so fortunate to fulfill him (usually i'm particularly an unlucky individual...regardless of my Irish blood lol) 2. i will handle honesty and grievance yet while somebody mentioned to me "you look like a fat pig and that i hate that dress." it must be honest in spite of the indisputable fact that it might make me cry 3. definite, very sexist, it particularly is a 2 way highway. 4. "i'm woman! hear me roar!" is over and achieved with. Many (via that I advise some) individuals attempt to be greater nicely (and mushy) spoken. 5. with the aid of fact women are egocentric. maximum individuals particularly are. 6. with the aid of fact while a woman hears an opinion diverse from her very own approximately issues from her guy she thinks she's made a mistake and is turns into very shielding approximately all of it. 7. back, women are egocentric. admire could be earned, that isn't any longer computerized. do no longer admire the ladies that don't admire you. 8. N/A 9. Err...i'm undecided. i'm nonetheless a virgin with the aid of fact i've got faith in making 'love' no longer screwing. 10. with the aid of fact meaning women are in charge. it particularly is a no-no for feminists =P You sound like a sturdy decent guy, do no longer complication approximately human beings or what women think of. Many are loopy cat females.
2016-12-08 13:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by falacco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think the first thing you should d is to get to know what it is that will really interest you and then go out looking for it .when you just look randomly expecting some really interesting guy to fall into your arms it is just not easy and yes there are no more that many interesting men all they want to do is hang out and drink ,watch football e.t.c.
So stay strongly to want you want and you will find it.tit has nothing to do with you age the only difference is that young girls too feel that is all so interesting to them.
2007-11-06 02:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! So many things make this impossible to answer! What are your expectations? Where are you looking? How long do you spend determining who is interesting or not? Are you actually out looking or just observing as part of your day?
2007-11-06 02:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by marystoy_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see any interesting girls anywere so it is just as hard too find a good girl just like it is hard to find a good guy most guys anymore would like to play videogames then date some of this weird girls not all girls are weard just most in this world are
2007-11-06 02:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by tweeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Widen your activities, meet more people, you need to be pro active...I am guessing. if you are a good mixer you should not have a problem
2007-11-06 02:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question is definitely not 'slightly' above average by any means.
2007-11-06 02:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by KJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldnt tell you cause im in your boat too
good luck
2007-11-06 02:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by ... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all has been feminized by women so that now all are hiding
2007-11-06 02:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋