I realized shes the only girl for me?

Question

I broke up with her wanting to date other people. After 4 months of this I realized no one is ever going to compare to her. We had so much fun together and I could be myself around her and she loved me for that. I love her so much but we havent talked since a few weeks after the break up and I saw her a couple months ago and she didnt even look at me...What do I do? I know I love her.

Answer 1

if i was you i would try calling here. maybe an email or something. tell her how you feel... first try texting here. just say whats up? if she replies then she wants to talk if she don't she has already moved on. if she don't got text call her. if she don't answer leave a message and if she calls back she wants to talk......

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Answer 2

Are you sure you really want her back, or is it a case of the grass isn't as green as you thought it was going to be? Either way, I'm pretty sure you've lost her. I've been in similar situations, and there's no way I'd take back a guy who dumped me, especially for a reason like 'I want to date other people'. You think you're hurting - have you tried to imagine how she must have felt?

If you're adamant you want her back, the best thing to do would be to try to get in touch with her again. Don't tell her you miss her and still love her, just send a friendly 'hi, how've you been?' email or text. See what the response is. If she's willing to speak to you again, you could suggest going out for a drink to see how the land lies. Again, don't mention getting back together unless she says something first.

If she ignores you or tells you not to contact her again, you're going to have to face facts and accept that you've been an idiot. Hopefully, you won't make the same mistake again.

Good luck.

Answer 3

It could be that you made a mistake and lost the love of your life when you broke up with her to date other people. I've seen this several times with friends and only one couple ever got back together but things were never the same.

You could try to talk to her but be ready for her to hand your walking papers to you.

Breaking up with someone to date other people hurts and she might have been extremely hurt by this herself and it could have taken a long time for her to get over it. She probably wouldn't want to set herself up for it again.

Once again, talk to her and just start off as friends. Since you had lots of fun with each other before, then friendship should come back easily unless there happened to be more emotional despair in the breakup than you might have guessed.

Good luck...I hope your love comes back to you.

Hold onto her this time!!

Answer 4

It's going to be awkward at first but you should call her up and tell her exactly what you wrote here. Expect nothing!! You don't know what's been going on with her since your break-up. Give her time, be patient and considerate of all the emotions that may arise from this.

She may be pissed that you wanted to see other people and now that you've come to terms with your feelings you want her back...what was she supposed to do ...sit on the back burner until you came to your senses?!!

You have to try to see her side and the way she could have interpreted the events.

Good luck!!! :)

Hope this helps!

Answer 5

OOOH, you F'ed up dude. You tell a girl you wanna break up to see other people and then tell her you only want her...

2 possible outcomes:

A: She loves you and is sooooo glad you finally came to your senses and you 2 live happily ever after or
B: She tells you to go screw yourself

If she wouldn't even look at you a couple months ago, I'd say B is most likely outcome. But if you really do love her, then it's worth a try.

Answer 6

I know this will be easier said than done, but you have nothing to lose by approaching her and letting her know you made a mistake. I wouldn't tell her you love her at the first conversation (don't want to scare her off) - work the love in slowly. But all in all you know her best and can see where the connection will take you. Good Luck.

Answer 7

She is probably hurt. You need to talk to her, and explain, you always loved her, that you were scared of your feelings, but since you havn't been around her, you now know for sure, she is the one that makes you happy, that you want her back, and you no without a doubt you love her, and if she will take you back, you will never leave her again!
She may feel the same, but you have to be honest! I hope its not too late for you, but if you had something special, you can get it back! Do it asap!

Answer 8

Do you have friends in common? If you do, send out feelers thru them- is she dating anyone? Has she expressed any thoughts, negative or positive about you? Maybe they could hint to her that you are asking about her, and this could open a door to an email to her, then a phone call, than a cup of coffee...........you get the drift. Start small and let her see you have a new perspective but be prepared to be patient.

Answer 9

I think you should give it more time because maybe you do realize you love her after 4 months but don't be selfish. Give more thought and time to your feelings and if you still feel the same in about another couple of months then approach her.

Answer 10

If you guy's were friends, you should be able to just call the girl up (I supposed you have her number) and start talking. Pick it up where you left off. But, don't mention you want to get back together, just take it slow. Become friends again, then progress towards a more serious relationship.

Answer 11

You may have feelings for her still, but it doesn't appear to be mutual. Move on...there are over 3 billion females on the planet so there are MANY women out there that would be good matches, and that you may like even better than this girl.

Go forth and meet people! ☺