My friend that is a boy is only 14. and he already lost his virginity. i don't know why he told me. but maybe its because he trusts me.
but anyway he got all detailed and said, "It was hard for me to get an erection, so i just did it fast." if it was hard for him to get an erection, then doesn't that mean he wasn't really into it? and the girl?
2007-11-06 00:59:59 · 10 answers · asked by Mikaela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily.
Stress, exhaustion, hunger, emotional state (14 year old getting some? expect "confusion and bewilderment" to score highly), drunk or stoned... there are a host of physiological reasons why he couldn't salute, many of which have nothing to do with the partner.
2007-11-06 01:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you may have a little crush on your friend, based on the tail end of this question. I could be wrong though.
Well, your guy friend is only 14, and a virgin apparently, so alot of factors could be involved, when it comes to him not being able to get an erection as fast as he would have liked. He could have been really nervous and focusing to hard on pleasing this girl, or maybe he wasn't feeling her like that, but he really wanted a piece of tail, so he was trying too hard. I'm not sure, but talking about a 14 year olds sex life, is making me a bit uncomfortable for some reason, maybe because my sex life sucks, (at the moment anyway). Best wishes to you and your guy friend!
-Knowledge24
2007-11-06 09:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For a 14 year old boy not to be able to get a erection when he is with a girl and going to have sex is just not cool.When I was 14 years old I had all I could do to keep it down.He may need pro help with that.When your young and wanting to have sex with a girl and with a girl most boy have one all ready just thinking about doing it.He may need to be seen by a doctor or he just needs to work into it first.Have her get him going before and get him ready for that part.Who he is with has nothing to do with him geting a erection.Some times when your in fear for the first time he maybe thinking he can't please her and fear will stop you from geting a rection.I don't think who he was with has anything to do with why he couldn't get a rection.Like I said he may need to see a doctor about this.
2007-11-06 09:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by the answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds really romantic doesn't he? Hey everyone in the free world is getting some except ME! Life sucks!
2007-11-06 09:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress and nervousness kept him from getting an erection
2007-11-06 09:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It just means he is young and was nervous
2007-11-06 09:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
at 14 your snake is not fully ready to strike.....you need more blood flowing to that area...... 14 is way to young to have sex....hope he wore protection...........
2007-11-06 09:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not exactly, maybe he was nervous.Him being too young..Can also be a reason.
2007-11-06 09:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by BB 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not really, he could have been nervous, or had performance anxiety
2007-11-06 09:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes if he can't keep it up something is wrong
2007-11-06 09:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by schultzie2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋