I stayed home from church once. My mil went to church that morning. So as I was there I saw that the kitchen was a big mess. It is mostly messy like this every Sunday. So I decided to clean up the kitchen. I did. After I was finished the kitchen was spotless and neat. Well, my sil and my mil both returned from church. My sil came into the kitchen and cooked a big Sunday meal. When she was finished cooking, every dish that I washed was right back in the sink like as if I did not wash nothing. The kitchen was a mess. My sil did not bother to clean up the kitchen. She left it dirty and messy. She went back home to Florence, South Carolina. I was so hurt because I took my time and cleaned the kitchen. My mil and sil seemed to not appreciate it. I was not looking for recognition. I just wanted the kitchen to look nice for a change. Plus I wanted the kitchen to look nice for my sil since she was visiting for that day. Did you think they noticed that the kitchen was clean?
2007-11-06 00:16:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
+Yes. I am sure they did. They knew you would clean up.
I would move,if I was you. You are just a stepping stone.
2007-11-06 02:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your mil live with you? There are too many women in this equation. sil and mil, and you, not good, not good at all. God Bless.
2007-11-10 05:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force others to recognize what you've done, or appreciate things -- but you can feel good on the INSIDE about your own accomplishments.
Trying to gain praise from others can be futile. Just be happy with what you do and take it from there.
2007-11-06 08:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah they noticed it. You made it easy for them to find the clean **** and dirty it all over again. Don't clean up after them ever again.
2007-11-06 08:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they noticed and just didnt care.if they were so concerned they would clean up there own mess.dont clean up after them again i think you have more to worry about then that right now.
2007-11-06 09:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. i am praying that god will provide you with your own place. love pastor carney
2007-11-06 10:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by preachercarney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋