I'm 37 and still live with my mom. I admit i'm not very attractive and i am overweight by a lot, havent looked after my teeth or face so i have aged. Basically im not very attraactive.
Because of my weight i can't get a job so all i have is a government cheque every fortnight so im not very wealthy if u could say that. I am also very shy and antisocial, i usually stay home with mom and watch movies or surf the internet or play wow. I've never really had interraction with other females so i am quite scared of them.
I'm not sure if i should use a prostitute. I have only used sex toys in my life but i want to get some real girl.
2007-11-05 23:53:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have nothing to offer a prospective date, so it's doubtful some "real girl" will just fall out of the sky for you.
Learn to take care of yourself. Good hygiene is imperative. Lose the weight. Get your teeth taken care of. Then get a job and a place of your own. Learn to communicate with other people. Get therapy to find out why you've self-destructed.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-05 23:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im awesome and attractive and I know alot of other awesome attractive teenagers/women who would NEVER NEVER NEVER date some stupid idiot who was sad at being a virgin at 15 every single person I know thinks you sured be 18+ to get "laid" It doesn't meen you cant kiss/make out a ton or snuggle/ get to 2 base or dirty dance when your a teenager but seriously dude just tell your cousin hes a manhore! Hehe^_^ Try becoming a friend with a girl before making a move get to know her and if your happy when your with her shes probaly too, oh and make your hair shaggy(girls love that) and smile alot like sheepish grins
2016-05-28 02:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by cari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would try and do something about your weight first. Instead of sitting on a computer typing this question, get out and do some excercise!!! That is your first step to getting HEALTHY not just getting a girl.
Secondly, i think there is someone out there for everyone. All you have to do is meet her. But again, you aren't going to meet her sitting on your **** are you?
Don't use a prostitute, you would regret it for the rest of your life.
Woman aren't to be afraid of. Generally we are quite nice people. But unless YOU change, then there isn't much anyone can do for you. Sorry
2007-11-06 00:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by aphrodite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.... how about this:
First, lose some weight. Walk, eat better, get fit and lose weight. Then take your government cheque to purchase some new, better fitting clothes.
Second, get a job.
Third, go to the dentist, and get work done.
Fourth, your not gonna get laid if you are antisocial. Go to clubs and pubs, find someone you're into and give it a go.
Fifth, if all else fails.... save your government cheques and use a pro.
2007-11-05 23:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...there's alot of advise for you already (hopefully you'll find some of it helpful, the ignorant maybe you should ignore).
I'm not going to lecture you about what you need to do to get yourself together. You obviously already know what you need to do. Yes, I know it can seem daunting to get started...but all it takes is one foot in front of another. Make that decision to make better eating choices and exercise a little more (you can do it..believe me). It doesn't need to be strenuous, and remember, every bit counts.
See your doctor if you have any health concerns about exercise.
There is nothing wrong with using a sex worker to fulfil this need you have.
A little secret....start feeling good about yourself, others will feel good about you also.
2007-11-06 00:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Serenity007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun its whats on the inside that counts, really but because you don't get out much you're missing out on women.
If you're really desperate get a prositute, but only if you don't wanna wait anymore..
Don't blame you looks on the fact you don't have a woman, not all woman are shallow if you can, join some clubs and get to know people.. If you're really worried have a long hot soak and go to the dentist get a retainer and make yourself over, you don't try you don't gain, good luck hun xx
2007-11-05 23:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. My advice would be first read and really look at your own question. All the answers are there. One action causes another reaction. Good for you for reaching out but it is all up to you to get to ball rolling. Stop making excuses. If u don't work then walk! Make that your job each day. Email me if u want at santayls@gmail.com. for a chat. Don't waste it all. Sandy :)
2007-11-06 00:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have describe to us things that need to change, so go about them, make yourself feel better. Join a gym, you will meet others like yourself trying to improve themselves. Once you build up your self esteem, woman will notice your confindence and want to be around you. Then take it from there. On the other hand, if you dont want to improve yourself, go to a whore, they dont care.
2007-11-05 23:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom won't take care of that aspect of your life, you'll have to see what you can buy on the street every fortnight.
Crack whores are the cheapest. Use a rubber.
2007-11-05 23:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you are looking for is pussy ??? not love or a good woman,,,go see a hooker,,,why lead a good woman to let her down and hurt her,,what you looking for is lust not love,,now if you change your ways, stop feeling sorry for yourself ,bite the bullet and get off your butt and exercise and loose weight ,,maybe you will catch the eye of a nice woman who will provide you with love and a good life,,, beauty is only skin deep
2007-11-06 00:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋