Ok i have had the same shoes for about 6 months now there were sandels i have had them since spring. the only shoes i had and the costed me 3.99 when i bought them. So i finally ask my husband and i went out to get sneakers lastnight at payless for 17$ the cheapest pair i could fine. And i picked him out a pair of boots because i had a coupon. so at payless i spend 34. and walked over to Kmart to get our son 3yrs old a winter coat which was 40% off so i got it for 21%. He wakes up this morning and starts cussing at me you spent all the f&^% money in my wallet out shopping.. oh yeah let me tell you there is money put up 350$ and all of our bills are paid! So he maid me fell like hell i have been crying all morining. I have a 17$ pair of shoes and feel guilty about it. and spent the rest on him and our son. and when i have shoes i keep them for 2years. and he has 3pairs all brandnew. he has a closet full of brandnew clothes and i have one pair of pants that i have had for 4 years????
2007-11-05 23:44:34 · 7 answers · asked by Densie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
latetly he has been really mean to me calling a " fat *** *****" just really mean. and he goes out and after he gets paid and spends money on himself. i have not have a new shirt in 2 years and i only have one pair of pants. for example for christmas last year i bought him a new coat, and a gurtair and amp i spend over 400$ on him, and yep u bet it i got nothing not even a stocking.
2007-11-05 23:47:47 · update #1
This man (and I use this term loosely!) is asserting his position in the relationship, making you feel useless and undermining your self-confidence. Don't let him intimidate and berate you. If he has to make you feel lousy to make himself feel better he must be a ...real...big....man.
You are a valuable person (with a heart of gold I suspect) and deserve to be treated with respect. Your generosity is touching.
Dry your eyes hon...go buy yourself a treat/step out into the sunshine/go for a walk/do something for yourself....you deserve it!!!
P.S. You need to stop wasting money on this man who is obviously not appreciating you for the wonderful person you are.
2007-11-06 00:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ you. But consider this lesson I learned from another woman when I was compaining about my husband. ( and believe me, I have a list). Her husband was an abusive drunk that wasted the family money, he was also snorting cocaine and was being unfaithful. She had 3 kids and was not able to financially divroce him. Plus she didn't want to have her kids in the care of a drunk and his alcoholic buddies every other weekend.Makes those farts smell a little sweeter doesn't it. BTW: I heard Kane's furniture is having a sale on sofa beds.
2016-05-28 02:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by cari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds alot like my hubby u need to make plans to leave like i am. emotional abuse turns into physical abuse besides think of this do you want him to talk to ur child that way because sooner or later he will and worse ur child could end up acting the same way what has finally opened my eyes is my son is now starting to act jus like him or u could get so depressed that u will start to think there is nothing left to live for so and who will raise ur child then ?get out while u can
2007-11-05 23:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by jesse m_violated for nothing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me this guy is all about himself and which is very very selfish no one can tell you what to do but i dont see him changing for you maybe it would be in your best interest to seek marriage counseling and if he refuses maybe you need some seperation time because he isnt showing any respect for you and its not going to change unless something is done.
2007-11-05 23:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by wanna know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with a selfish, abusive man, it's your choice, hon.
Why are you living this way? Maybe you can talk to someone in your family or a good friend you respect and admire... you really need someone to listen and perhaps give you good advice and direction.
YOU DESERVE good things, too. Please stop beating yourself up and take measures for change... no one else will do it for you... hugs
2007-11-05 23:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are You sure we don't have the same hubby? Men sux... Try not to feel guilty... That sucks!!! I feel bad cause I get the 1.99 sandels at Walmart...
2007-11-05 23:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by ~~Lisa~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so sad I am just about to cry I am so sorry for you. Leave him you can do better.
2007-11-06 00:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋