I met him and fell for him he is a drummer and i really like him but he live with her and he must in order to maintain a relationship with their child together. IDK what to do. HELP!!!!
2007-11-05 23:07:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hog wash and lies, he is with his baby's mother because he wants to be. He wants his cake and to eat it too. I bet you if you talked to her she doesn't even know that you are in a relationship with her man - she is thinking that they are a family and you're thinking that he his your man - no man has to stay for a baby or anything else. Men walk out and live in separate houses everyday and keep in touch with and have a relationship with their children. If you fall for this you will fall for anything. Don't be blinded by love - the man is still sleeping with and being with this women and she doesn't have a clue about you.
2007-11-05 23:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
File that one under "no." Instead, start checking out guitar players. Drummers rarely ever come up with smokin' hot riffs and face melting solos. Why do chicks go for drummers? Most of them are idiots!
2007-11-06 08:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Prop Forward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what a baby mother is.
but if that is an elderly woman who needs care because unable by herself, than the best your kind can do if you like that drummer boy: give him a below job, and leave them
alone after that.
2007-11-06 07:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's a baby mother? You mean a baby who's a mother? Doesn't make sense that way? Or do you mean baby's mother?
No, he's not for you. He has a child to concentrate on.
2007-11-06 07:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by N L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He certainly saw you coming didn't he? He's a liar and a cheat. I pity the poor girl who is landed with his child. He's telling her no end of lies. Don't be a part of it. Ditch him, and find a man without strings. He will no doubt find another star-struck mug, then another, then another, then another.....
And I hope the poor girlfriend will see sense and kick him out, and find a proper father for her baby.
2007-11-06 07:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Thia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a relationship! It's time to move on and find someone who can give you 100% of their attention. If you stay, you will be the 3rd wheel, and you do not deserve that!!
2007-11-06 07:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by business as usual 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are in a bad mix. Run away...
This is not a good situation for you, especially down the road. Find someone else, a person who comes without baggage, if you know what I mean. Believe me, they are out there!
2007-11-06 08:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tony d:-) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is giving you the " I have to stay for the child " line, and because you think you love him you have fallen for it.
He is using you big time. Dump him big time before you get your heart broken by this two timing cad.
2007-11-06 07:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by holly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
errr.
He lives with her but is ....... with you????
Does she know? I doubt it.
Does he .......... with her? I expect so.
Think about it darling, you're sooo much better than this!
You might in-advertantly ruin that childs life by breaking his parent's relationship up. & you sitting there saying "I didn't know" seems a little naieve to me.
2007-11-06 07:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Musician!!! Hellooooo!!! Can't you see? Are you blind? She has his baby and they will always be connected. He is living with her!! Helloooo!! Time to wake up now!!! Ding Ding Ding!
2007-11-06 07:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋