when someone dies people say "He/she is not suffering anymore - is in a much better place than you or I."
so why the hell would you have children and bring them to this world which is worse then the one they are (or their souls are) before you give them life. U clearly make them suffer till they die and return (or their souls return) to the better place. Why would u do that - are you an egoistic sadist who does not care as this is nice to have children?
2007-11-05 21:36:34 · 8 answers · asked by Faesf D D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
or r u a slave of procreation and social tension to follow a crowd? who cares if human kind will die out if this is the only way to stop maintaining suffering?
and no people do not suffer only when they r dying, they suffer much much more, if they are conscious of what is going on here.
2007-11-05 21:55:22 · update #1
They say that to help themselves greive
2007-11-05 21:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by barcode soul (almost suspended) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The term suffering once meant: to learn or experience - not as religious people believe it means today
What u say about bringing children into the world is correct - bringing a child into the world, on the face of it seems totally crazy and cruel - it may sound strange, but every parent is ultimately responsible for the death of their children
2007-11-05 21:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a great time when I was growing up. I suffered in many ways. I starved, was almost raped, had two sets of parents - the first set just leaving and the second set terrible and Godless, but I am glad to have lived because God loves me. And I love Him. So I am sorry that you are having a difficult time, especially with the death issue, but I know that Jesus Christ has delivered me from the death that is before me.
So to me, death is nothing. It's just a transition to the real life that is beyond the grave.
1 Corinthians 15:55
O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?
2007-11-05 21:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pangel's answer is the same as I feel.
My twin suffered horribly with cancer before she died. Death was a release.
Any parent knows that sometimes you have to let your children suffer in order to heal them or keep them safe. What about kids who are addicted who have to go therough withdrawal? That is making them suffer to help the, get better. What about when children say they are suffering because their parent won't let them
2007-11-05 21:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by batgirl2good 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when people say that about someone who has died ... it is usually someone who has suffered due to an illness such as cancer
no one likes to see anyone else in pain
so sometimes death is a blessing
this doesn't mean our whole life is suffering , this life can be amazing
I have children because I love children and I try to make their lives happy ones
so that they may grow to be a happy , independent , intelligent adult
I love my children very much and they love me
there is no selfishness in it ... in fact being a parent takes a lot of selflessness
2007-11-05 21:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by ☮ Pangel ☮ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would you focus on the worst possible outcome when there are so many others and most of them are more likely
2007-11-05 21:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They claim its test of character
2007-11-05 21:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dope, if no one had Children, then there would not be a single human alive. God gave us the desire to procreate. DUH!
2007-11-05 21:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋