K So My girl my mami rica is moving to Jersey n i live in puerto Rico(caribbean) any tips wat i can do to forget her or at least get by?i never beleive in real luv until i met her n now she is moving i should have seen it coming is my luck it always have been
i have try to get my self busy n it dsnt works
2007-11-05 21:16:58 · 12 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would do anything for ehr i will even give my life for her's
2007-11-05 21:17:53 · update #1
Hi, why can't you go with her? What is stopping you? look around yourself and honestly ask your self" Am I strong enough and daring enough to do something lifechanging"
Good luck to you. don't ever regret your life, make it fantastic
2007-11-05 21:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly, I'd say don't try to forget her. If you would give your life for her why are you trying to forget? Would you give your life for something you don't remember? No. Keep in contact with her. Don't try to forget, because if she ever comes back, it will hurt both of you.
If you want to learn to cope, look at things this way. She is perfect. Amazing. Everything you have ever wished for. The things you love the most are the things hardest to let go. Don't let her go so easily. I don't mean stop her moving, but don't just accept it without a second thought. This is hard stuff. Try to make a box of stuff that you can remember her with. Put things she's given to you in it, things that remind you of her. Things that were special between you two. Then give her a box of stuff too (include photos too!!!). You could make a movie. Just a quick one. Of her and you spending time together. You know, just a quick movie from her saying "hey honey. I love you. I'll miss you" etc (hope she'll start crying) and send her a movie like that too.
Every time you find you miss her, send her an email or something and open the box and remind yourself of how good you guys were/are. Watch the movie. It will hurt, but will also make you feel better.
Make a website for the two of you to share, where you post updates about yourself so she can check up on you regularly.
WRITE LETTERS! emails are great, but letters are even better. Emails are instant, whereas letters make you long to receive a reply.
Email me for more ideas.
2007-11-06 05:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by loveyoubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are in true love with her then you would wait for a time in both your lives that you can be together.
however, in the mean time you should get busy with a new jobs, new acitvities like a sport you love and in general just keep really really busy so that you dont have time to get depressed over it.
Remember that its just a part of your life, so concentrate on making the other parts as good as possible. Become a happy person without relying on a girl, and one day you will be able to get back together.
people fall in and out of love all the time so in the gap you might find another girl you love just as much.
hope this helps, keep and open mind and remember not to get consumed by sadness because the reality of the situation is that you cant do anything about it so you might as well keep your life moving at the highest rate.
2007-11-06 05:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well freest try not to think about her by surrounding your self with activities, people,films,novels just anything and if the thought of her comes to your mind try to replace it with something else.am going Thur the same thing right now and these are the things that have been working for me and with time it will gradually leave or mind or at least reduce.
2007-11-06 05:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for you! If you love her the chances are, you will NEVER forget her, but you can help ease the heartache or pain... try to focus on something you love, I like to sing when I need to focus on something different. I am not an expert in relationship advice, but I say go with your gut, have you at least let her know how you feel?
2007-11-06 05:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think that u just need to keep your mind busy. Just stop to think about love for a while. There will be a slight chance of forgetting her. Or if u can't forget her, then think of a plan of keeping her from going then!!
2007-11-06 05:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, if you really love her that much, why do you want to forget her?
try having a long distance relationship, then if it works, that's good, if it won't, bad luck, at least you won't go on living wondering what could have happened if you tried...
so you won't be lonely that much, find a job
2007-11-06 05:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and keep busy. Go out more often with your friends and family. Meet other girls may help.
Best of Luck...ciao
2007-11-06 05:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go to school and learn how to write then impress other women on your new writing abilities.
2007-11-06 05:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Old man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church, a relationship with Jesus always keeps me motivated.
2007-11-06 05:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋