Well, me and my gf have been 2gether for about 3 years, we actually never had sex before but just oral sex cause she says that she afraid of the pain and pregnancy and her body will be out of shape.But my hormones is getting over me,i dont want to force her to have sex but sex is always in my mind.I just hope to have sex with her,i know i cant force her and respect her.I admit that she is the only 1 i really love.I've ask her about having sex,she refuse and our relation s'times mess up cause of tht topic.I just wont betray my relation just for sex.What should i do?
2007-11-05 20:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by IamK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, me and my gf have been 2gether for about 3 years, we actually never had sex before but just oral sex cause she says that she afraid of the pain and pregnancy and her body will be out of shape.We enjoy oral sex though.But my hormones is getting over me,i dont want to force her to have sex but sex is always in my mind.I just hope to have sex with her,i know i cant force her and respect her.I admit that she is the only 1 i really love.I've ask her about having sex,she refuse and our relation s'times mess up cause of tht topic.I just wont betray my relation just for sex.What should i do?I dont know what to do right now.I wont do something wrong towards her cause she is real sincere to me.what should i do?
2007-11-05 21:11:14 · update #1
Would having sex can change our relationship?What should i do so that i wont let her down?
2007-11-05 21:13:06 · update #2
Im now 18 and im in college now,and she is now 17 still in high school.Im doing great in my school life,would tht change my entire life?Our parents accepted this relationship already.I'll marry her once i graduate and have a stable life of my own and able to support her.
2007-11-05 21:15:50 · update #3
Anal should do.
2007-11-05 21:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bethuel 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Hey at least you are getting oral sex now. Be happy about that! Reminds me of the old joke...
Q: Why are brides always smiling when they walk down the aisle at the church?
A: Because they have realized they will never have to give a man oral sex ever again!
2007-11-06 13:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by The Professor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it depends on how old you are and if you are sure she TRULY feels the same way for you. If you are 2 young it can ruin a lot of things. I had sex with my boyfriend at 18 thought we were truly in love and he still keeps ruining our relationship and we have a son now because of it. You should wait because once you get what you want and you think she is the one
2007-11-06 05:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by littlemissmay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ist of all "ORAL SEX IS SEX!" Intercourse is something a girl or women must be ready for, and can cause pregnancy! So don't push the issue. Remember, pregnancy is "LIFE A CHANGING EVENT!"
2007-11-06 05:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by maur911 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try marrying the girl first before you do something like that. Or you could do it the almost right but almost not right answer, go outside and have fun with girls you know what i mean. But You said you wont like to betray her right? i think you should go a bit of distance to her and do something to ward you off of your sexual craving. Do something that requires you to be so busy that you wont think about it anymore. make her miss you.
2007-11-06 05:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well m8, if u really love her u will have to get used to waiting, try setting up a romantic moment, maybe cook dinner with some aphrodisiacs in it, like oysters... get her in the mood and she may come onto you. apart from that idea all i can say is to be patient, good things come to those who wait
hope it helps
2007-11-06 05:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by jack p 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you've been together for 3 years, why dont you get married first so all your fears and inhibitions will be solved.
2007-11-06 05:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by corrosidney 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats really odd that she won't have sex with you in 3 years! Its not exactly fair, tell her to go on the pill she won't get pregnant.
2007-11-06 05:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by ~funkymonkey~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing that men have been handling the situation for centuries, Take IT into your own hands and keep that respect for her.
2007-11-06 05:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just be happy youre getting oral. when you get married you will have the opposite problem.
2007-11-06 05:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by metaxas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find another for sex only by permition of lover
2007-11-06 05:06:58 · answer #11 · answered by sunit p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋