simple self defence moves?

Question

I'm getting bullied bye one kid hes taller but i think i might be stronger im not much of a fighter but he will not leave me alone and he pushes me and says bs about my family so i want to know how to protect myself against him.

He's in my class hes one year older then me and if told the teachers billions of times they dont take it seriously they just say u go play that side of the oval u go play that side of nthe oval and thats it and he just comes straight back over to me again.

Answer 1

I'm totally against violence but also believe in standing up for yourself... if you are letting this thing getting your self esteem low and you wanna do something about it, well, this is what I can suggest.

The next time he come push you again, just punch him in the nose as hard as you can. Do not stop even if he hits you back hard. Let nothing stop your fists from connecting to his nose, not even pain.

There's no simple self defense moves that guarantees success every time. Only your determination will earn the respect.

Stand up for yourself, look him in the eye with fierce determination. Shout at him that you won't take it sitting down. If he pushes it, you will finish it.

Of cos, you might lose, but trust me, he won't bother you anymore when he knows you're no longer an easy target.

Answer 2

Sorry to hear that you are facing such a tough time with this bully.

You NEED to tell every adult in authority that you can about the situation and work with them on a resolution. While it is probably very tempting to try to find some "super simple" technqiue that will allow you to reduce him to a bubbling, whimpering, baby in front of everyone you have been embarassed in front of - it's not the right way to go and it is not the smart way to go.

Talk to your parents and explain the whole situation to them. Have them go with you to your teachers and the head teachers at your school. Explain the situation in as much detail as you can. At least if you have done all you can to engage adults in the solution of the problem you face, if you absolutely must defend yourself physically, you should have some evidence that you were trying to work it out.

It's largely up to the school to provide a safe environment for everyone to learn without this stupidity, so you need to press your teachers and the school authority to do something about this. Try to establish a "no bully rule" policy at your school if there is not one. If there is, get it working for you.

Engage your friends to help you resist this idiot. Ask your parents to enroll you in a martial arts class perhaps. Self-confidence can often overcome the bullies who use words and bravado to intimidate others. When you are no longer intimidated, it's very possible that you will not need to physically defend youself as the bully will no longer see you as an easy target, and he'll move on to someone else.

Physical engagement means everyone has failed and probably two of you are going to get hurt, physically or legally. Never a good solution to any problem, so I'm not going to try to give you any advice on that front here as it just doesn't make sense to.

Good luck and I hope some of my suggestions may help you find a solution.


Ken C
9th Dan HapMoosaKi-Do
8th Dan TaeKwon-Do
7th DAn YongChul-Do

Answer 3

I would go and see the principal and tell him/her that you have talked to the teachers and they have not been proactive in putting a stop to this. Perhaps they are afraid of him but that does not release them from their responsibility and doing their job. I would also talk to my parents and them following up with a phone call or visit to the school to talk to the principal about the situation would also put added pressure on some people to do their job and deal with it.

If confronted by the bully you have a choice to either walk away or deal with him. If you decide to fight, then fight to win. Besides a good kick or knee to the groin, jab him in the eye with your four fingers gathered around your thumb and then continue to punch, knee, elbow, and kick him. Most people don't handle a groin shot or an eye shot very well for a few seconds and that's your opportunity to start to give him a beating that he won't forget. You may get in trouble for it but if you have already talked to the principal then you have that in your favor and tell them that you were just protecting yourself and doing the job that they did not do for you like they should have in the first place. At the same time perhaps its time you checked out some martial arts schools and started taking lessons. Most people that do learn things besides just how to defend themselves so that bullies are less apt to pick them out of the crowd to harrass or bully.

Answer 4

Well u could push bak if u think ur stronger, but a nice angry shoulder charge wit a bit of an angry look on ur face should do it.

The kid mite go oh God, dis kid might really wana hurt me. Den they may lay off but it can make it even worse. The kid cold get their freinds so yeah, try to stay wit a group of friends wen on the oval. Jus please be very cautious and careful. Hope I helpd a bit.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

you cant be told what moves work, like kick him in the nuts and people saying just walk away are just stupid, cos if you are getting attacked and you just walk away as you turn away you will have seven shades kicked out of you. People will probably say tell teacher, parents, bla bla bla but when i was younger i had a bit of a hard time a school and you probably dont want to loose face and tell on this kid as no doubt he will still do it and it has probably just angered him. i wasnt a figther when i was younger so i kinda no were you are coming from. so this is what i did after, after having a year of him just taking the piss and then getting a bit worse till it was just victumisation bulling, then during games (pe, gym whatever its called at your school) I he took the piss and as usual i let it go, i was getting changed and he came back in to the changing room and i realised we were alone i walk behind him and spun him round so he was facing me, and told him he was a f**king c*nt and it stops now, then kicked him in the nuts and walked out, he cried in the toilets for an hour untill a teacher found him and then me and i just told the teacher the hole story of what had happened in the previous months and he just let me on my way. another time guy was trying to bully me i just just called him a d**k and left and he carried on the day after, the day after that saw him with his friends and and i was with my friends i went over to im in the middle of his friends and slapped him in the face and walked off laughing (forced just to embarris him) and it stop
those were my past experience, if you get the better of them they will pick on some1 easier, if you think there will be a real fight that comes from it join a martial arts school and start doing lessons one were blocks and counters are a big part e.g. kung fu(not wushu were you do alot of flexability stuff), karate (but not one were you have to train by just kicking stuff none stop to harden your leg) and have a good group of friends that will help you if you need it. having said this you should really use violence to stop this guy. And now my martial arts instructor side you cant ask people for good moves to do as every situation is different and the opertunity to do the move might not happen, also if you dont practice the move you might not be able to pull it off of even do it but leave yourself open for a stronger counter. if you want top know some moves to do join a martial arts school
a bit long winded but thats my best advice
bar simplest stuff works not fancy moves.

Answer 7

Try to ignore him as much as possible if you can.
Bullies love it when you react to what they say or do to you.
If he still keeps on bullying you, still, dont get physical.
Talk back to him confidently, saying that you're no pushover and he should stop.
If hes grabbing you and touching u, try and get control of his wrist by holding and twisting. Once u control his wrist, he will follow.
IF NOTHING ELSE WORKS, if he pushes you, get out of the way, and strike the nose. This will automatically force him to put his hand over his nose and make him teary-eyed. He no longer can do anything. Fight over.

Avoid any other dangerous moves. Like excessive punching, etc. as you can get into trouble as well. Try to only use one move.

But remember, always try to avoid the fight!

Good luck^^

Answer 8

Hey, if he's physically abusing you, you should go to the police! Even if it's only been threats so far, you should tell someone - don't keep it to yourself! Fighting will only get you in trouble.

That said, if you get jumped from behind, use the method shown in Miss Congeniality: SING!

S - Solar Plexus (elbow into it)
I - Instep (stamp on it)
N - Nose (smack it with the back of your fist)
G - Groin (turn round and knee to the groin)

If that doesn't drop him, nothing will!

Answer 9

grab the groin.... 1) Grab
2) Twist
3) Pull

or just hit him in the throat. Not hard just enough to make him drop. then walk away

Answer 10

if you really feel pushed to respond then

kick him in the meat and two veg

all bullies are cowards at heart , its better to get beat up defending yourself , than to put up with bullying

when he realises you will fight back he will leave you alone

al the best
Ian